Two Mormon Stories listeners who attended a Terryl and Fiona Givens fireside in Arizona come on to unpack it with John Dehlin, as part of an ongoing series on what Dehlin calls Mormon neo-apologetics. Scott Turley, whose family name traces back to Joseph Smith’s era and who found his way into “liberal Mormonism” partly through this podcast, and Carey Foushee walk through what the Givenses taught at the fireside, including a reframing of baptism — not primarily about remission of sin but adoption into the body of Christ and a covenant to mourn with those who mourn — and a redefinition of sin itself as closer to weakness or woundedness than transgression. They discuss the Givenses’ use of scholar Royal Skousen’s textual work on the Book of Mormon, and debate whether the fireside and the Givenses’ new book, The Christ Who Heals, were aimed at ordinary believers or specifically at people in the middle of a faith crisis, the way their earlier book Crucible of Doubt was.
From there the conversation widens into what gives the Givenses their particular authority and audience within Mormonism, what neo-apologetics is and isn’t, and whether it functions as an organized institutional project or something looser and more emergent. Turley and Foushee talk candidly about what it’s like to hold progressive views inside an active ward — where it’s worked, where it hasn’t (Foushee points to Sunday school in particular), and how each has made peace with having few people around them who want to talk about religion this way. They close by weighing what The Christ Who Heals and the broader neo-apologetic project can, and can’t, offer people wrestling with doubt.
What’s covered
- 00:02 Introduction and episode overview
- 06:03 Guests introduce themselves and their backgrounds
- 09:59 Attending the Givens firesides
- 14:41 Givens teachings on baptism, judgment, and degrees of glory
- 20:55 Personal reactions to the Givens firesides
- 38:22 Who are the Givenses, and what is their authority?
- 56:08 Defining Mormon neo-apologetics
- 1:05:41 Doctrine, patriarchy, and the limits of apologetics
- 1:18:42 Being a progressive voice in the church
- 1:28:25 Discussing The Christ Who Heals and final thoughts
Related episodes: 385-386: Fiona and Terryl Givens and “The God Who Weeps” · 495-496: Fiona and Terryl Givens and “The Crucible of Doubt” – Parts 1 and 2 · 1393: All Things New, by Fiona and Terryl Givens – A Review
Episode Transcript
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Introduction and Episode Overview
Carey Foushee [00:00:00] Sa.
John Dehlin [00:00:29] Hello everyone, and welcome to another edition of Mormon Stories Podcast. We're broadcasting live from holiday, Utah. It's November 17, 2017. My name is John Dehlin, and we're really excited about the topic that we have in store today. As some of you who follow Mormon Stories will know, we've been doing this series on what we're calling Neo Apologetics.
John Dehlin [00:00:54] What I'm defining Neo Apologetics as is sort of a new apologetic movement in Mormonism that's different from classic Mormon apologetics. So when you think of classic Mormon apologetics, think of sort of Hugh Nibley, think of Daniel Peterson, think of Brian Hales Fair and Farms and the Maxwell Institute historically, before the changes of late. And it's basically attempts to defend Mormonism through science, sometimes some would say pseudoscience or not very high quality science. It's the reliance on sort of sometimes ad hominem attacks to attack anyone who's willing to question the church.
John Dehlin [00:01:44] And it's sort of apologetics that either gaslights or invalidates the doubting perspective. And we'll just call that classic Apologetics. Please check out our past two Mormon Stories episodes to understand that a little bit better. We've been doing those with Dan Witherspoon of Mormon Matters podcast, and we hope to have him back for more analysis of that. But we're contrasting that with what we're calling neo Apologetics. You can think of Neo Apologetics as the work of Patrick Mason with his book Planted with Terrell, and Fiona Givens with Richard Bushman, which is very much more a pastoral approach. There's a lot of love, a lot of empathy for doubters and questioners.
John Dehlin [00:02:32] And it's not so much an attempt to respond to challenges of the church's truth claims directly through the use of science. There's a heavy reliance on humanities and on just almost poetry and theology to sort of see if we can not only help people stay at the church, but also provide people with ways to see the church differently. And in no arena, I think, has Neo Apologetics sort of been more influential in the church than this sort of dynamic of Terrell and Fiona Givens traveling around the world, literally paid for by an organization that at one time was called the Temple Observatory Group, I think they were called, which were a group of wealthy Mormons who pooled money to pay for the Givens to fly all over the world and to do these types of workshops and retreats.
John Dehlin [00:03:34] Temple Observatory Group, I think, was their name. And so they've done this. And to some extent it's really Kind of a little bit secretive and behind the scenes, but I think they might object to that characterization because I think in some cases, these firesides have been advertised more broadly and just kind of open to the public.
John Dehlin [00:03:58] And so what we're doing right now is we're actually going to bring on to Mormon Stories Podcast two individuals who. Who recently attended one of these Terrell and Fiona Gibbons firesides. And the fireside that was held in Arizona, I believe, and we'll get more details about it. The fireside was held to discuss the new book that the Givens have come out with. The book is called the Christ who Heals, which is a follow up to the God who Weeps, which, again, is a very poetic kind of humanity sort of device.
John Dehlin [00:04:31] You know, the God who Heals, the Christ who Weeps. It almost sounds like poetry. And that's sort of what we're talking about here. They were in Arizona at a fireside to promote their book, and the two individuals who we have on board talking to us today were two men who were actually in attendance. And so the two men that we have with us to discuss this are Scott Turley and Kerry. How do I pronounce your last name?
Carey Foushee [00:05:05] Fouche. Like Fouche, but Fouche.
John Dehlin [00:05:08] Yeah. And we're just gonna talk about what the Givens are saying, what they're teaching, and kind of get Scott and Kerry's reactions to what the Givens are teaching personally, what it means to them, and then we're gonna try and have a little bit of a conversation about what it all means, or does it mean to mormonism in the 21st century. So with that, what I want to do is welcome both Scott and Carrie to Mormon Stories for the first time. And I want to invite each of them to briefly kind of introduce themselves to our audience. So, Scott Turley, would you mind going first and introducing yourself to our audience?
Guests Introduce Themselves and Their Backgrounds
Scott Turley [00:05:51] Yeah. Hi. Thanks for having me on. My name is Scott. I have been a lifelong member of the church. The Turley name goes back all the way back to Joseph Smith. I grew up in Arizona, and I kind of gotten into this world of liberal Mormonism.
Scott Turley [00:06:13] I'm not quite sure how long ago now, but my sister actually sent me a link to your podcast, John, several years ago, and she had kind of gotten introduced to it just before that, and it just kind of led me, got me on this journey. I just kept listening. And I especially enjoyed some of these neo apologetic interviews that you. Using the term you're using, especially the Bushman interviews, the Giddens Interviews Adam Miller, Those were the ones that really spoke to me and kind of really got me firmly in this kind of world of liberal Mormonism and kind of in that journey. It kind of led me to the Facebook groups.
Scott Turley [00:06:51] And so I was in, I think, some of the Mormon stories Facebook groups for a while, and eventually a thoughtful faith group came up and I joined that. And actually I've been a moderator for that group now for the past three or four years, I believe.
Scott Turley [00:07:06] So, yeah, that's pretty much kind of a brief summary of how we've gotten into this kind of part of Mormonism. But I've loved it. I really love this kind of light over here in this corner of Mormonism with the Givens and Bushmans and Adam Miller and some of the other kind of take on Mormonism. It really speaks to me. So I'm happy to be here and talk about that.
John Dehlin [00:07:29] So happy to have you here. And I just can't say how important I believe the work of the a thoughtful faith Facebook group is you and Jerry Lee and Mark Crago and Dan and everyone else who participates. Who are some of the other mods, John, that are okay. Being mentioned? Public issues?
Scott Turley [00:07:47] Yeah, I'm not sure about that. Yeah, we have a handful. We've had some recent ones that are doing a lot of good work. So. Yeah. Not sure who would be. Who'd mind being made public. So I don't know.
John Dehlin [00:07:59] Okay.
Scott Turley [00:08:00] Yeah.
John Dehlin [00:08:00] And that's how I learned about this Fireside. Okay. Well, Scott, it's great to have you. Kerry, why don't you go ahead and introduce yourself as well.
Carey Foushee [00:08:07] Yep. Kerry Fichet, living here in Mesa, Arizona. I've. I go back to Mormon Stories about seven years ago, listening to your podcast. I was even. There was a. When we Mormon Stories used to have the little local groups. I had the. I was in the Phoenix Mormon Stories Book Club. That was pretty vibrant thing going on. We had book clubs and played basketball together at the church. We did. We did lots of different things as a. As a group for a long time. And I was really involved in the Facebook and all those online groups for a while.
Carey Foushee [00:08:49] I think over the last maybe year or two. I've kind of just my Facebook time and thoughtful faith. I am a member of that, but I haven't really been as participant on it. You know, I kind of just come in and come out. So. But yeah, I've definitely been still involved in the Mormon studies or the. What Scott's called Mormon liberalism. I've been reading the books of the Givens, the Bushmen, Joe Spencer, those, you know, so, you know, I listened to a lot of different podcasts. I still am a pretty avid podcast listener. I'm not. I don't consider myself a scholar and, you know, in the Mormon studies thing, but I do like to read and participate that, you know, just as an informed person. And, you know, I still am an active member of the church and going. And that's me.
John Dehlin [00:09:47] All right, well, it's a real honor to have you both. I am going to just mention, because that's a. It's an important part of our values here in the Open Stories foundation and Mormon Stories. We don't like it that there's just three. Three men here and no women.
John Dehlin [00:10:04] And we did arrange to have Renee Brunner van Aostal join us because she was one of the main people, as I understand it, to help organize this event and was also a participant. But we, you know, recording time came, and we haven't heard from Renee, so we're hoping she can still join us. But we also want you to know that for us, it's suboptimal to not have a woman joining us. And honestly, if there's a woman who's listening right now who attended this event and who wants to participate in this conversation, I would literally share with you the link. You can join us, and we would love to have you.
John Dehlin [00:10:48] So just message me on Facebook if you are a woman who attended this event and wants to participate in the conversation. Again, we would just love to have you. All right, so, Scott, would you be the best person to kind of tell us what you know about how this event came to be and kind of what it was just to give listeners a sense for what's going on.
Reactions to the Givens Firesides
Scott Turley [00:11:09] Yeah, And I heard you talk about that organization that kind of organizes these firesides. I'm not sure that that was the case here. Okay.
John Dehlin [00:11:18] The Temple Observatory Group.
Carey Foushee [00:11:19] Yeah.
Scott Turley [00:11:19] Right, right. My understanding was the Givens is we're in Arizona. Anyway, there is a women's conference that happened a week earlier. So they were in town, that ward. I think they had a member that was in the Givens home ward back in Virginia at one point. And so they had a connection, and so they invited them over to their building to do this fireside. It was on a Friday evening, and it was made public. I knew some people on that ward, and I saw them advertise it on their Facebook page. And so I arranged it to head on out there. And so that's how. That's my understanding how it came about.
John Dehlin [00:11:59] Okay. Great. Tell us more about it.
Scott Turley [00:12:02] Okay. Yeah. So basically Fiona and Terrell Givens were both leading it and Fiona took the first half and Terrell took the second. And I didn't even know about the book, so I just kind of came in blind to that. But just to kind of talk about the main kind of topics that were that were described. And basically this is going to be through my own filter, so hopefully it's accurate. But it's what kind of struck me the main thing was they were really focused on what Joseph Smith was trying to do, especially in the context back then of, you know, the world. The United States at the time was very steeped in this Protestant Protestantism and it was very steeped in Adam, the original sin and salvation.
Scott Turley [00:12:51] Christ saving us from our sins and the God who kind of condemns us and the Jesus who advocates for our sins to this God who advocates. And he was really pushing up against that kind of view of God in Christ and especially really pointing out that Joseph Smith was doing the same thing. So rather than a Jesus who saves us from our sins, it's a Christ who heals us from our woundedness. And rather than a God who condemns us and judges us, it's a God who mourns with us and the God who weeps. Right.
Scott Turley [00:13:24] And rather than us having this sinful, like being born into a sinful state, we're actually born into a state of woundedness. And that our job here coming, it's not Adam. Kind of the event of Adam wasn't a fall, but rather an opportunity to ascend. Right. We come into this life to ascend back to God. So it's this idea of coming from this wounded state and finding Christ and through the process of our lives finding wholeness, which was his kind of replacement for perfection. So rather than be therefore perfect, be therefore whole through a Christ that heals. And that kind of paradigm shift I just found really beautiful and resonant.
Scott Turley [00:14:10] So that was. Those were the main kind of thesis. And he spent a lot of time going back and really digging out the scriptures that kind of proved this point in the Pearl. Great price in doctrine and covenants and looking at the original Greek of the New Testament and really try digging out kind of how kind of proving this thesis out. So that was the main summary of the prior said that I got out of it.
John Dehlin [00:14:35] Talk about what they said about baptism, what it was and what it wasn't.
Scott Turley [00:14:39] Yeah, no thanks. That's a good point.
Carey Foushee [00:14:41] Yeah.
Scott Turley [00:14:42] So commonly we view baptism as a remission of sin. So if life isn't necessarily about receiving forgiveness of sin, but being made whole from woundedness. So baptism, similarly, is not necessarily remission of sins, but. But it's an adoption into the body of Christ and then taking a covenant to being a collaborative partner with Christ and God to help each other receive that comfort. So it's going back to Alma of making a covenant to mourn with those who mourn, comfort those who stand in need of comfort, and to lift each other's burdens. And that's really what baptism is about. It's an adoption into the family of Christ to make a covenant to help each other in a collaboration with God to heal each other from our wounded state. So, again, yeah, that was a really important point that they made.
Carey Foushee [00:15:36] So.
John Dehlin [00:15:37] And then talk, and I'm just going through the bullets. You wrote in the thoughtful faith group talk about the judgment and what the judgment is and isn't according to the givens.
Scott Turley [00:15:48] Right, right, right.
Carey Foushee [00:15:49] Yeah.
John Dehlin [00:15:49] So
Scott Turley [00:15:51] trying to remember. Exactly. So, yeah, the main point is I'll
John Dehlin [00:15:57] read what you wrote. You want me to read what you wrote?
Scott Turley [00:15:58] Yeah, for sure.
John Dehlin [00:15:59] They talked about judgment as an event to see oneself clearly so that we can be healed.
Scott Turley [00:16:04] Yes, yes.
John Dehlin [00:16:05] Not so much as a. You know, is like, you're being judged with the big weight.
Scott Turley [00:16:09] Right.
John Dehlin [00:16:10] Of like, did you have enough sins or enough good things and counterbalancing that.
Scott Turley [00:16:14] Yeah, yeah. It's to bring out.
John Dehlin [00:16:15] It's.
Scott Turley [00:16:16] It's to allow ourselves to be aware of ourselves and to bring out these dark places so that we can be, like you said, we can be healed. And a big part of that is it's not like we're condemned to one kingdom. And that was another point that came up. This is a chance where we can kind of progress through the eternities to reunite with God. Right. And that's universally available to everybody. So. Yeah. And so, yeah, the judgment is a time of healing and a time of unification. It's time of finding union. Yeah.
John Dehlin [00:16:48] It almost sounds like he's saying it's not sifting the wheat from the tares. It's not about exclusion.
Scott Turley [00:16:54] Right, right.
John Dehlin [00:16:55] Is that. Is that the sense you're basically conveying?
Scott Turley [00:16:58] Yeah, I think so. Yes.
Theology of the Givens: Degrees of Glory and Baptism
John Dehlin [00:16:59] Okay. And then you. You mentioned the three degrees of glory.
Scott Turley [00:17:03] Right.
John Dehlin [00:17:05] And, you know, historically, maybe many of us were taught there's no progression between kingdoms.
Scott Turley [00:17:10] Right, right. What.
John Dehlin [00:17:12] What were they saying about the three degrees of glory and progression?
Scott Turley [00:17:15] Yeah, I mean, he referenced Joseph Smith's brother Alvin, who died really young, and he said that Joseph Smith had this vision of seeing him in the terrestrial kingdom at one point and then later seeing another vision of him in the celestial kingdom. And so the point was that there is this progression, like we're not stuck in one kingdom. Right. It's the opportunity to progress from kingdom to kingdom. And he ended. This was a little bit controversial in that Facebook post, but what I got out of it was this was a lot of general authorities were talking along these lines back pre1950s, but it was after Joseph Fielding Smith and Bruce Armand Conkey, and I kind of in my head was thinking correlation when they really tightened the screws and became more term Mormonism and a lot more Protestant. And we've kind of lost some of that is what I heard them say.
John Dehlin [00:18:09] So in some ways, he's basically reaching into our historical past to find maybe more conciliatory doctrines so that we can feel comfortable about shifting from where we are now. It's not so much a divergence, but a return to what many have taught previously.
Carey Foushee [00:18:29] Oh, yeah, jump in there. I think that's Terrell Gibbons work, you know, in his other books to wrestling the angel and stuff. He doesn't just go back to the Mormon restoration. He's going back to the early church.
John Dehlin [00:18:44] Yeah, yeah.
Carey Foushee [00:18:45] Always pulling on those threads. But they're always just seeds out there. It's not, you know, I mean, there's probably a lot of seeds. There's probably a lot of different ways you can. You can do that. But that's his work. Right. He kind of goes in there and he's like. And I think even in the. I haven't read their new book, but they alluded to it that, you know, they went and looked at the different stuff path that the western and the eastern Christian churches take. And they're saying, oh, we're seeing all this emphasis that we. That, you know, Mormonism kind of more aligns with in the eastern part of the thing, you know, is that the restoration isn't just a restoration of this authority, power. They're trying to emphasize the restoration of our ideas, of our theology.
Scott Turley [00:19:25] Right.
Carey Foushee [00:19:27] You know, and in some ways, I don't know that that's as sexy of an idea. You know, the place wasn't very packed. I mean, there was probably a quarter of the chapel field. My brother, actually. My brother.
John Dehlin [00:19:44] A quarter. So like 50 people? 800 people?
Carey Foushee [00:19:50] Yeah, 50 to 60 people.
John Dehlin [00:19:52] Yeah.
Carey Foushee [00:19:54] You know, so you could kind of spread out wherever you wanted. I mean, you know, there was Maybe there were 60, 70 people. Maybe, maybe, you know, it was not full I went in there like, oh, it's just gonna be packed, you know, because for me, it's like, oh, the Givens are coming. And I drove 35 minutes. You know, it's in Queen Creek, and I'm in Mesa. So, you know, I drove 35 minutes to go see it. And I know Scott comes from Tempe, so he's coming that far, too. My brother is in the stake. My sister's in that stake. They hadn't even heard of it.
John Dehlin [00:20:31] Yeah. Okay, so that's interesting. Well, before we talk about all that, Carrie, what do you want to add? You attended, so what do you want to add to what you heard the Givens teach that you found meaningful or noteworthy?
Scott Turley [00:20:49] Yeah,
Carey Foushee [00:20:53] it wasn't most. Some of it wasn't new to me. Like, the eternal progression through the kingdoms wasn't new to me, but I actually went with. I brought somebody with me that lives right by me, and it was completely new to him. So, you know, I could talk about that later about his kind of.
John Dehlin [00:21:12] Yeah, we'll talk about that in a second. But. Anything else? Just about what they said that Scott didn't cover. That you found noteworthy.
Carey Foushee [00:21:19] One thing, too, is a lot of what they're redefining is that that idea of instead of sin, it's more about weakness.
Scott Turley [00:21:26] Right.
Carey Foushee [00:21:27] It's kind of. Instead, they're seeing some of. Like. They even mentioned Royal Skousen some of the new interpretations or that, you know, he'll. You know, Royal Skousen has been tracking the different translations of the Book of Mormon, the different versions of it, and going back to the original manuscript. And so sometimes there's words changing. And he brought that up, you know, that we seem to always kind of want to redefine things as sin rather than leaving these words as woundedness or weakness.
Carey Foushee [00:22:00] But it's a very fine theological point, the difference, you know, in some sense, I think, to the average Chapel of Mormon, you're just gonna be like, what? It doesn't make any difference. But they're kind of building this. The ideas that they're talking about.
Carey Foushee [00:22:16] It does make a difference. You know, it does have impact, and that's what they're. They seem to be focusing on. I almost felt like it was a restoration of the restoration. Right. You're kind of going back and trying to restore those. Those original ideas and say, you know, this stuff matters, you know, that we don't believe in original sin.
Carey Foushee [00:22:35] I don't know that they brought that up in the Fireside, but it is in his book. And you Know, he'll focus on what that even means, you know, so they have. They've got to do education first to explain what that means before you can say, why is it that we don't believe in it? And I think what the givens are getting to is, like, these distinctions, these theological distinctions in early Mormonism are important, and we need to kind of emphasize those again.
John Dehlin [00:23:03] I love it. Okay, so let's do this. Scott, tell us what dog you have in this hunt, so to speak. Can you talk to us about your. Whatever you're comfortable sharing about your personal approach to Mormonism or your framework within Mormonism and what the givens work means to you personally?
Scott Turley [00:23:29] Yeah.
John Dehlin [00:23:30] I mean, even a little bit about your story.
Scott Turley [00:23:32] Sure, sure. No, I mean, I grew up in a fairly marginal family in terms of just a dad who had trouble keeping a job. You know, parents who struggled in a lot of different ways. They didn't have a lot of friends. They liked to just stay home.
Scott Turley [00:23:53] They struggle socially. And the church for them meant everything. Right. They went to every church activity. We had a lot of support from the ward in terms of financial support. You know, they. They were all in on home teaching and visiting teaching. But it was a. It was kind of a way of living Mormonism that was. I kind of looking back especially, it was a little bit dead for them. I mean, it was. It was good in that it gave him some structure, it gave him some survival, and it gave him a network.
Scott Turley [00:24:24] But it was just about, you know, if I get my home teaching done, if I go to church every Sunday, I'm done. I made it right. That's salvation. Right. I got my. I baptized all four of my kids. I got my son to the priesthood, and they kind of went through all the check boxes, right? So that's kind of how I grew up, is that for them, as long as they did those things, they were good and that's all they did. Right.
Scott Turley [00:24:50] And kind of growing up and I looked at the mission, too, and I struggled a lot as a kid. It was tough. I had a lot of my own issues. Depression. I had a lot of anxiety and a lot of that, too. I could see Mormonism at the time as both kind of salvation as well as it was like, saving me from a lot of different things. There's also, like, brutal in that. I was. I constantly felt like I was not good enough. I constantly felt like the. The weight of sin, right, was just a presence in my life. And I never felt good enough.
Scott Turley [00:25:30] I never felt worthy. I always, like, I took the sacrament, and I passed it and blessed it, but I never felt like I was doing it worthily. And I didn't have trust. I didn't have good relationships with bishops. I. I think they all meant well, but I just. It was kind of a scary, this judge in Israel kind of concept. I just. It was hard for me at the time, but the mission, you know, I felt like the mission was a way for me to really get my life together. And it was for me, it was life changing.
Scott Turley [00:25:58] And I came back like, on fire, and I was all in on Mormonism. But, you know, I. Again, I have influences. I've had a lot of influences outside of the church. And the main thing for me just kind of growing up is I had a lot of good things and bad things in Mormonism in my life, but I had a lot of really good things and maybe not so good things outside of Mormonism.
Scott Turley [00:26:20] I've always saw these lights outside. So my two older sisters were very steeped in feminism, and they were very liberal from early on. They both went up to BYU and really struggled from an early age, much earlier than I did with Mormonism, very upfront and. But they also, they were very much into arts, and they were getting me exposure, getting me to theater, to art and music and different things. And there was this whole world that I saw outside of Mormonism that I found beautiful and full of lights. So I always had that. And so.
Scott Turley [00:26:58] And so that's kind of what I was talking about. And so my sister sent me a link to Mormon stories. And so I started listening, and I just started seeing these perspectives from anti Mormon folks or from nuanced Mormon folks or liberal Mormons and feminism. And, you know, your world starts expanding, your thought process starts expanding. So for me, it wasn't.
Scott Turley [00:27:24] So there was a mix. There was a light out that I was just following this light. But it was also. There's certain things in my life that just wasn't. It just wasn't. Mormonism wasn't always the solution for. And I needed to find different ways to frame it. Like, I struggled a lot just being like that whole perfectionism kind of thing, right? Or okay, you know, I see bishops, I see stake presidents. I want to be like them. I got to home teach every month. I got to do my calling, like 110%. And it was just really stressful and I. Anxiety and stress. That's. That's kind of part of my personality to begin with.
Scott Turley [00:28:02] And so just when I saw these other approaches, hey, you know, I can relax. There's grace. Like, without a knower, there's grace. There's. You know, by the way, Joseph Smith had his own flaws. Right. You know, like, he had his own mistakes. So these great people I've been putting up on a pedestal aren't always that great either. So. Right. I can kind of take it easy on myself.
Scott Turley [00:28:27] So it's kind of a complicated story, but that's the essence of it. And so anytime when I hear a message like the Givens is like a Christ who heals, that just speaks to me, like, at a deep, deep level. And it allows me to really like, hey, you know, this is Mormonism. This is how Mormonism really could and should be, and this is how I can live it right. In my personal life, and this is how I can, like, teach it to my kids as well. So, I mean, I think that's basically the essence of it.
John Dehlin [00:28:58] So it sounds like you've had a textured perspective to the church, like probably all of us have in different ways, but that at different times, you've either questioned or struggled or not felt completely edified by what Mormon doctrine or theology or practices had to offer. And so for you, the Givens is sort of present a brand or a form or a look at Mormonism that feels more hopeful, that feels more healing, that is more edifying to you than maybe Bruce R. McConkie, Joseph Fielding Smith correlated CES, historical Mormonism. Is that right?
Scott Turley [00:29:42] Yeah, definitely.
John Dehlin [00:29:43] Okay. And so for you, are the givens an important part of what allows you to kind of feel good about staying engaged with the church?
Scott Turley [00:29:52] Yeah, I mean, and yeah, I think so.
Carey Foushee [00:29:55] Yeah. Yeah.
Scott Turley [00:29:57] I mean, there's a lot more to it, but definitely that this is a brand of Mormonism that I really love. I think I'm going to. I mean, I was never. I've never really contemplated leaving the church. Right. So my roots in.
John Dehlin [00:30:11] You never had a faith crisis that challenged your commitment to the church?
Scott Turley [00:30:15] No, no. I mean, no, I mean, because like I said, it's. There's a lot of parts of Mormonism that have been life saving and there's a lot of stuff, a lot of this stuff that the Givens are bringing up I found in other ways. Right. Just that whole, you know, just this network, this community, this opportunity to really engage. And some of this stuff came up too, in their crucible of doubt. Right. Of just kind of be an opportunity to serve others as other people served me when I was a kid, kind of struggling because there were people in my life through the Mormon, through my wards and the young men, presidents and seminary teachers. And like I said, there was a mixed bag. There are some things that were kind of brutal, but on the whole, I think I gained a lot more out of it than was harmful.
John Dehlin [00:31:06] Got it. Okay, so that's great, Kerry. What's your dog in the hunt?
Carey Foushee [00:31:14] Yeah, I mean, I resonate a lot with Scott saying, you know, one interesting thing that the friend I brought, you know, he was like. After me and him were talking and he was like, saying, you mean you can progress through the kingdoms? You know, it's like, I'm like, you. The next day, I talking to him, I said, you never heard that before?
John Dehlin [00:31:36] Forth.
Carey Foushee [00:31:37] And he's like, no. You know, he went in and he was talking with his bishop, apparently, and he went and told his bishop, and he was like, the bishop's like, yeah, we really don't know what goes on, you know, what exactly it's gonna be like, you know, in the afterlife or whatever. And so he felt a little, you know, permission to kind of believe in that idea. And I was like, you never even heard that or thought, you know, I sometimes will forget, you know, different perspectives, how different they can be.
Carey Foushee [00:32:10] And then he said to me, what. How do you know what is true? You know, how do I know what to believe if I can believe that versus believe that? You know, because he's. So some of it becomes about an authority thing. And I think the givens, because they.
Carey Foushee [00:32:25] Because they approach it through an academic kind of lens, right? They're going into research. They're telling you what. What the translation of this Greek meant, you know, in the original thing. And. And, you know, they do their research and they're talking about the early church fathers and everything. So they're giving you, you know, some kind of ground to base these ideas on. But in the end, if you're. It's still about authority, you know, whether you're willing to listen to.
John Dehlin [00:32:53] Yeah, we're gonna. We're gonna cover that. But I'm just trying to get a sense for why you care. You personally. Why does Kerry care? Is this just fun intellectual? Are you, like, in the church? Are you, like, trying to find reasons to stay? Is there work meaningfully, personally to you? If so, why?
Carey Foushee [00:33:12] Well, because. Yeah, I'm. I don't. You know, I've come to a point where I don't need. I don't have to have it all defined for me, right? But I am staying and I am trying to. To make sense of Mormonism in my real life, you know, and make it. Make it help me with my life and my wife and my kids and you know, going to church and dealing with things. And there came a point in time where, you know, the very, I don't know, classic story, rigid story, kind of orthodoxy kind of broke. Right. And I was left almost with nothing. And so I started to become aware that there were other people with other ideas, you know, from all kinds of different.
Carey Foushee [00:34:04] I wasn't aware of sunstone, of dialogue, of these, you know, and now there's even more, right, The Maxwell Institute, all these different kinds of ideas and reading and you know, it's like when I read, when I read Rough Stone Rolling, I kind of both fell in love with Joseph Smith again and. But I got a sense of his vision. And yet there were times where I still kind of felt like there were things where I'm like, well, he's, he's clearly, you know, crazy here or he's just the normal, you know, weaknesses of people. You know, I kind of had judgments of him, but I also was inspired and that's how I've just kept going.
Carey Foushee [00:34:47] So this kind of thing for me is a way to, you know, it's a watering hole. It's a way to kind of go and you know, I go to these things occasionally and be with people that are like minded that, that are both, you know, involved in Mormonism. But it doesn't have to be that the traditional understanding, you know, they're willing to entertain new ideas.
Carey Foushee [00:35:14] So that's, you know, I go because it uplifts me and I'm interested in learning, you know, I'm interested in learning about history and anthology.
John Dehlin [00:35:25] Okay, so you're. Yeah, in some sense it's similar, it's similar to Scott, you're looking for, you're trying to hang on, you're hanging on, you're committed, you're in at some level and you're looking for additional perspective or nourishment that can help you feel better about your engagement. Right, right, right.
Carey Foushee [00:35:46] And that would be, that would be why I do, why I go home teaching. That's why I go to church. Is it a sense, I mean the same answer to all of those things. I don't do most of. I don't really do things out of. I'm obligated otherwise I'm going to, you know, burn or I do it out a sense of fear, you know, I'm probably, and I say I generally I'm not that awesome. Right. I probably still do some things out of fear or trying to please others or things but relatively speaking, it's a lot less. Mostly what I'm doing and serving. It feels more authentic to me.
John Dehlin [00:36:24] Yeah, got it. Okay. Let me just say as a side note, that I've tried multiple times over the past couple years to get the Givens to come on Mormon stories, and they continue to decline. So I'm only saying that not to criticize them, but to let people know that it may be weird that we're talking about their firesides in their books and they're not here for now. It's because I can't get them to come on. Now, I did write Fiona back in 2015 and asked her if she'd come on Mormon stories, and she said something interesting. She said, our primary concern is the possible misperception that we may be setting ourselves up as faith crisis gurus, which we most certainly are not.
John Dehlin [00:37:10] Also, their publicist apparently has me on an email list, and when they publicize this new book, I volunteered to interview them because their publicist reached out to me. And of course, when I said, yeah, I'll do it, bring them on. I've heard nothing back yet, so I hope the Givens will be willing to come back on Mormon stories. We feel like we not only have a lot of people that could benefit from what they have to say or who care about what they have to say, but also we feel like we've kind of helped help them get visibility, and we would just appreciate it if they didn't just kind of, now that they're doing what they're doing, kind of ignore and forget us.
John Dehlin [00:37:49] But I just wanted to make sure everyone understands that I want the Givens here speaking for themselves, and I'm going to do everything I can to make that happen. But having said that, do you, either of you, have a reaction to this idea that Fiona would say that she doesn't want a perception that they're setting themselves up as faith crisis gurus? My reaction was, isn't that exactly what they are? Scott, what would your reaction be to that?
Who Is the Audience for Neo-Apologetics?
Scott Turley [00:38:16] I'm not sure. I definitely saw the crucible of doubt as that, for sure. I kind of feel like this book and this Fireside was more directed at the church. Wholly like, hey, this is theology gurus, right?
John Dehlin [00:38:32] Theology gurus.
Scott Turley [00:38:33] Yes, yes, yes. Like, they're saying they're pulling out these really beautiful parts of Mormonism with the idea of trying to get the broader church community to really respond, I think. But for sure, that crucible of doubt was directed right toward faith crisis. Okay, yeah.
John Dehlin [00:38:50] So they're so, so this is more a theological act than a faith crisis act.
Scott Turley [00:38:55] I mean, that's my interpretation.
John Dehlin [00:38:56] Okay. Yeah, well, that matters. You were there, right? And you're someone who cares. Kerry, do you have anything to add or not?
Carey Foushee [00:39:05] No, I guess I agree again with Scott. You know.
John Dehlin [00:39:07] Okay, that's fine. That's fine. All right, so let's get into some of the issues or concerns that people have expressed. These are going to be obvious things, and they're going to be things that others. That others are going to know. We want to invite anyone who's listening live to please post your questions or comments about what they've heard so far.
John Dehlin [00:39:34] I'll just read a couple comments that have been listed so far. So Kiersey writes, and these are just reactions to what you two gentlemen have already said. So Kathleen wrote the word, single word, spin. I don't want you to respond to that yet, but I want to just start giving what some of the listeners have said so that we can have them in our minds as we talk about this. So Kathleen wrote Spin. I'm guessing that she's saying that the givenses are trying to spin Mormonism.
John Dehlin [00:40:06] Kjersi wrote, mormonism promotes perfection and routine, which breeds depression. So I think Kjersi's responding, Scott, to some of the things that you wrote about how perfectionism can get you down and the high standards and maybe even the theology that some of the more harsh or rigid apostles may have advanced over the years can lead people just to feel really down. And it sounds like the givenses are trying to promote a theology in a gospel that's more hopeful, that's more healing, to make people feel great about the gospel instead of just beat down and depressed about the gospel. And I'm guessing that, you know, you've already said, Scott, that that's kind of what it means to you, right?
Scott Turley [00:40:52] Yeah. Yep, for sure.
John Dehlin [00:40:54] Clark wrote, when my shelf broke and the profit pedestal came down, so did that perfection and guilt complex. So Clark is basically echoing what you, Scott, and what Kiersey have also said. David writes, I fully support the effort to change institutional Mormonism, but I really struggle with the message that the givenses and others push. To me, it feels they are representing a version of Mormonism, that it's simply not the givens version of Mormonism is often foreign to what is being taught by the 12. Okay, so let's jump into that really quick. So what would. Kerry, we'll start with you this time. So you're not always.
Authority, Institutional Church, and Listener Comments
John Dehlin [00:41:34] Me too. Ing, Scott, you know, Shannon wrote on the Shannon wrote on Facebook, I love these thoughts and ideas. If only the quorum of the 12 taught the same. So I have two questions for Carrie and then Scott. Who are the givenses to be theologizing?
John Dehlin [00:41:50] Right. What gives them authority and power to even think that they can be opining on theology? And I don't mean that in a challenging, negative way. I mean, I think there's a healthy discussion about where theology comes from and whose right is it to theologize. Right. So don't. Don't take this as me questioning them or criticizing them. I think it's a valid question. Who are the givens is to be theologizing. And if this isn't coming from the 12, does it matter? Kerry, what's your reaction? And then we'll get Scott's.
Carey Foushee [00:42:26] You know, I mean, that's. That's kind of what I was alluding to with my friend, too, is kind of. It's about authority. You know, what's about authority? Right. Yeah, the theology versus doctrine. And I think that's kind of where we've.
Carey Foushee [00:42:42] Even the givens at the fireside at the end, they had a Q and A. And he did say, you know, what we're teaching here, you know, in response to somebody asking a question, is we don't speak with authority. You know, they're not trying to deliver it with, you know, thus saith the Lord or something like that. You know, it's about persuasion. You know, either you're going, and you're either gonna listen and, you know their arguments and go and verify them. You know, in terms of the act, it's more of an academic type of situation. You know, you're either gonna be persuaded by their arguments and their evidence, or you're not.
Carey Foushee [00:43:22] And the hard thing with, you know, coming out of a different paradigm of Mormonism is you're. You're normally always, you know, this is what I took out of it. And I will say that, you know, lots of people take different things out of even the Church. There's not just one version of things, but there do seem to be prominent versions that we all kind of glum to.
Carey Foushee [00:43:49] And, you know, I feel like I was a quote, unquote, victim of that, too. You know, I grew up with things now that I look back on and say, oh, man, that maybe that's why that hurt me in my life and maybe why that made me so unhappy. You know, I'm glad I learned something new and better about it now.
John Dehlin [00:44:10] So it sounds like you're saying theology can be this marketplace of ideas where people shouldn't speak for authority, speak with authority, because they'll get in trouble. But why can't. Why can't the church be this place where people have different private perspectives about theology? And those who like and benefit from it can enjoy it, and those who don't like or benefit from it can believe what they want to believe. Is that kind of what you're saying?
Carey Foushee [00:44:36] Yeah, I think that's actually what the church is, you know, to some extent.
John Dehlin [00:44:39] Okay.
Carey Foushee [00:44:40] I think there is a part of that going on. We've just. People don't feel quite as open and free about that. I think, you know, you go back correlation or just that, you know, what happened. I mean, they're not writing books on the New Testament anymore. You know, I do think there's starting to be a separation between the scholars and the general authorities, the administrators of the church. And I know they still, you know, have messages to speak about the gospel and Christ and stuff like that. But I do see a difference in
John Dehlin [00:45:15] who's not writing books on Christ any or
Carey Foushee [00:45:19] unlike Jesus the Christ, like Talmage or Mormon doctrine. You know, we're not seeing those type of books come out from the 12. We're seeing those kind of come out through.
John Dehlin [00:45:28] Okay, all right.
Carey Foushee [00:45:29] Through BYU channels through more of experts.
John Dehlin [00:45:32] Got it. Scott, what's your react. What's your reaction to the questions? Who are the givens is to be theologizing and does it matter if it's not coming through the 12?
Scott Turley [00:45:42] Yeah, I mean, like Kerry said, they were upfront with that. And the fireside, they said, hey, we don't speak for the church. These are our opinions only. And you hear people say that all like. And I think that's very common, too.
Scott Turley [00:45:55] You do hear people say, hey in Sunday school. Say, hey, this is a doctrine according to me. Right. You hear those kind of disqualifiers quite often. But I will say, though, there was a lot of this stuff I would challenge is very core to the gospel, like a Christ who heals. That whole concept of a healing Christ. I've heard a lot on a local level, especially, like where bishops talk about, hey, you can use grace and the atonement to heal you from your whatever pain or damage. I think that's very core to the gospel. And I mean, there are some things that I haven't heard, like officially, especially like progression through kingdoms. I think that was fairly controversial.
John Dehlin [00:46:38] My brother was taught that doctrine by his mission president back in the. In the mid-80s.
Scott Turley [00:46:44] Okay.
John Dehlin [00:46:44] But it was taught as kind of the secret Thing that only those in the know could talk about. And you almost got this sense that there were brethren who believed it. But if they taught that to the general membership, members wouldn't take repentance seriously in this life because. Because then they would just logically conclude, well, I can have fun in this life because I can always progress in the next life.
Scott Turley [00:47:07] Right, Right. Yeah, I can kind of see that thinking, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Carey Foushee [00:47:11] So.
Scott Turley [00:47:12] So I. So, yeah, I definitely don't believe they are speaking for the church officially. These are their ideas, their opinions, and they're. But they're found, they're. They're trying to find the foundation within scripture. They quote Book of Mormon, they quote Pro Great Price and Doctrine and Covenants and other general authorities. Right. They quoted Brigham Young, even Joseph Smith and various others in the Fireside. So I think they're trying to find legitimate grounds to offer these ideas with the recognition that it's a little bit off from the.
John Dehlin [00:47:48] But to what end? To what end? What do you think? I mean, here's me guessing. My guess is they would hope that, number one, a bunch of members who might feel shame, feel sad about the gospel would no longer live and dwell in shame. I'm guessing that that's part of their motivation. And then a second part of their motivation is this hope that if enough people talk about it, and I got this phrase from the ATF group, this idea of trickle up theology, that if there's enough scholars and lay members who talk about this stuff that the general authorities will hear it and start to talk about it more. Because I don't think they're just writing this book and doing, doing these firesides just to pontificate. Right.
Scott Turley [00:48:33] No, I agree with that. I agree with that totally. And I think they mentioned too that a lot of this stuff is not necessarily official doctrine that they're countering. A lot of it's just deeply embedded in the culture. And you could say that the general authorities and correlation and these manuals are a big driver of that culture of sin. And a lot of that is Protestantism. That kind of leaked in. But a lot is embedded into culture. And I think they're really trying, like you said, they're trying to change the culture of the church. I think that's their main drive.
John Dehlin [00:49:02] That question of what's the difference between doctrine and culture. Right. Is a huge. No, no one knows the answer. I would argue there's no such thing as Mormon doctrine. That really there's just a bunch of things said and things written and interpretations over the years. And what's actually officially doctrine.
Scott Turley [00:49:20] Right.
John Dehlin [00:49:21] I mean, we don't even know. I'm gonna. So I'm gonna riff up. So this idea that Kerry advanced about marketplace of ideas. I'm gonna, I'm gonna read something that Brittany wrote in our comments, and then I'm gonna, I'm gonna talk about Denver suffer for a bit. So Brittany writes, I think that Fiona and Terrell are very aware that they need to be careful with their image the second that they are seen as a threat.
John Dehlin [00:49:43] This is, to Kerry's point about authority. They will be unable to reach those who need it most. Posturing matters, unfortunately, when it comes to things like apostasy, because they do call out problems in church theology. And in a sense, that was my reaction. They are absolutely contradicting teachings that Boyd K. Packer or some of the more harsh apostles over the years. Joseph Fielding Smith. I'm sure we could find examples in modern apostles. And really what we're really talking about is outlined in the Book of Mormon. The there's mercy and grace that's a value in the Book of Mormon, and then there's justice. And you really can't ever eliminate both.
John Dehlin [00:50:26] And so it's always going to be just this tug of war where we're trying to find the right harmony of justice so that people take things seriously and are held accountable. But mercy, so that people feel hopeful and don't get too beat down and discouraged. And all they're basically trying to do is is kind of put their thumb on the scales of mercy a little bit more so that people feel hopeful and optimistic.
John Dehlin [00:50:50] But what they have to be careful of is what's the difference between the Gibbons and Denver Snuffer? Denver Snuffer is simply just picking interpretations of the Book of Mormon or of things Joseph Smith said and advancing his theology. Right. And for him, I guess the difference might be that he's claiming to have direct authority, direct communication, communication with Christ. And that's going to be immediately seen as threatening by the brethren. But he's also encouraging members to gain a lot of individual authority in terms of their relationship with Christ to kind of cut out the brethren as the middleman between their relationship with Christ and themselves.
John Dehlin [00:51:30] But what do you guys think about the fact that the Givens need to be careful and that this is sort of dicey business? Scott, we'll have you answer that one first. And then Kerry, if you have anything
Scott Turley [00:51:43] to add I don't know about, I'm hopeful that they don't, that that's not true because I feel like this is hard for me to know because in my position, my perspective, I feel like what they're offering is well within the broad hint of Mormonism, as far as I can see it.
John Dehlin [00:52:06] Yeah, I think so, too.
Scott Turley [00:52:07] I don't think they're really trying and I think what they're doing fundamentally is different than what I know of Denver Snuffer doing because they're, they're in the church. They're, they're, they're going, they're, they're. I don't know what their callings are, assuming they have callings. They're in their word, they're participating and they're really pointing. They're trying to build up the church itself. Right there. It's yes, we have our individual revelation, we have our individual perspective and opportunities, needs to learn and get these insights and they're offering theirs. Right. They're publishing books, but they're also, they're also very loyal, as far as I can tell, to the church, the institution itself.
Scott Turley [00:52:45] They're really pointing people to the church as well. Right. And they're quoting current general authorities. I think they quoted Elder Uchtdorf in the Fireside and things like that. So they're pointing us to the church. Right. And I don't ever see them attest the church directly. I could see them kind of questioning and criticizing the culture, as I said earlier. And maybe you could point out disagreements with, between what they were saying and specific talks, like you said. Maybe you can point out a quote, President Packer's talk, but they don't call it out directly. Right. They're just offering. They're really, it's very positive way of doing it. They're finding quotes and scriptures and general authorities they agree with and they're pointing everybody that direction.
John Dehlin [00:53:36] Yeah, it's very, it's very strategic and smart and diplomatic, which to their credit, that's the way you, that's the way you survive. I, but, but I think what some of our listeners are saying is they're walking a tightrope a little bit because they want to, they want to try and encourage a different approach to theology, but they have to be careful not to step across lines that make the brethren feel challenged or contradicted. I think that's true. Michael writes that the institutional church isn't denouncing the Givens says something that's true. The fact that their book is published by Desiree book says a lot. And the fact that they're allowed to run around and go to various chapels and give these firesides speaks volumes.
Scott Turley [00:54:26] Right, right.
John Dehlin [00:54:27] So. So it seems like they're pretty. Pretty operating on pretty safe territory. My next question is. Well, you know, so recently, you know, Ballard said some things that were kind of really, you know, shook some people up. So he basically made that point that. That we may be general authorities, but we're not authorities on all things, and that we need to find a place for LGBT brothers and sisters. Some looked at those comments as signs of hope.
John Dehlin [00:55:00] Others said that's doublespeak, that, yeah, we're gonna have these awful LGBT policies that cause kids to kill themselves, but the church doesn't wanna look like they're anti lgbt, so occasionally they'll make positive LGBT comments, and that way they can sort of speak to both sides of the audience. Kerry, what do you think about this idea that the church kind of the brethren are going to keep toeing the conservative line, and that's what General Conference is. And in that way, they're going to shore up their base, but then as a tactic, they're using the givenses to go around sort of in private, sort of in this rifle way, to sort of speak to the liberals, speak to the progressives, so that they can sort of have their cake and eat it too.
John Dehlin [00:55:44] They could be orthodox, they could be fundamentalists, they could be more justice warriors, but at the same time, have the givens is out there to kind of COVID the bases and reach out to those who need a different message. And is that bad? What do you think about that, Kerry?
Carey Foushee [00:56:02] That sounds very kind of conspiratorial to me. Like, it's. It's too well organized of a thing. You know, I see it more. I see diversity within the upper leadership, except, you know, in certain ways and policies. You know, they all come together and, you know, I don't know, maybe it's a little bit of all those. Maybe all that could be true at some sense, because it's just something always in motion. I mean, no matter what, what he said is hopeful, but maybe that hope won't reach the light of day. You know, maybe there'll be something, somebody else, some other thing that comes along and squashes it. But, you know, as long as you think what he said was honest, you know, he's trying to push it that way. He's trying to build a base or build, you know, momentum in that. And I think there's a lot of things.
John Dehlin [00:57:04] You mean, Ballard. Yeah, yeah. So you're saying there's. That not all the brethren are in agreement. I think we know that's true. I think that the apostles themselves disagree and have different approaches. And then instead of it being viewed in some Machiavellian way where, like, the brethren are trying to be dishonest, what we're seeing is different apostles or different wings of the church institution sponsoring different approaches, so that in the church there can actually be a diversity of thought and a perspective. Is that what you're saying?
Carey Foushee [00:57:38] Yeah.
John Dehlin [00:57:39] That's cool. Scott, what would you add?
Scott Turley [00:57:43] I tend to agree with that. I think. I don't get the sense that the Givens are acting on behest of a direct kind of coordinated effort with general authorities. I kind of feel like they're. Who knows? But I just kind of took it as they're being honest and authentic. And I think Ballard is being honest and authentic. And I think others are being honest and authentic maybe in ways others don't like. So I think there is probably. I agree. I think there's a lot of diversity of opinion, and I think the church is really trying to work through this in an official way. Right. We get these official statements, but, you know, you see the church evolve over time in a lot of different ways, and I think officially you're going to see that. I love it.
Critiquing the Givens Approach and Tactics
John Dehlin [00:58:24] Let me ask you guys specifically about the Givens tactics. And this speaks to this issue of Neo Apologetics. Nick writes, the Givens rationalize and distract from the falsehoods using intellectualism and flowery words. What do you guys think about that? When I read the God who Weeps, there was a part of me that's like, oh, if we can just quote enough poets and philosophers, we can sort of put lipstick on a pig. And I don't. And I don't mean that. That's my view. I'm just saying that's a point of view.
John Dehlin [00:59:00] When I interviewed Tova Mirvis recently, an ex Orthodox Jew, she defined apologetics as helping people feel good about things they don't feel good about. And what do you guys think about that argument that the Givens tactic is to use Greek, to use French, to use philosophy, to use poetry and literature just as a way to sort of have these mellifluous words that make us feel better? And in reality, it's just an apologetic approach to make us feel good about something that we. We maybe shouldn't feel good about? Scott, why don't you start on that one?
Scott Turley [00:59:36] Okay.
John Dehlin [00:59:37] I mean, is there something to that? Is there nothing to that from your point of view?
Carey Foushee [00:59:42] There's probably.
Scott Turley [00:59:43] Perhaps there's something to that. I think, though, for me at least, first of all, I love poetry, I love theology, I love academics. I don't think there's anything wrong with that. I think there's a lot of beauty and depth, and that's what we're all. That's what we all should be trying to do, right? Like dig in and really appreciate beauty and poetry and theology.
Scott Turley [01:00:05] So I think. And this is the givens is. That's their whole life, that's their career, that's what they do, that's their expertise. So I don't expect anything else from them. I also think the church is this mess, like everything, the world, all of its institutions, every individual. We're all messy. We have beauty, we have darkness, we have shadows, we have struggles, we have sin. And we hurt each other in all kinds of ways. I mean, that's just the way life is. And so I know, sure, there's gonna be institutions are really. That probably shouldn't exist, and we should shut them down. I don't think the Church.
Scott Turley [01:00:45] I don't think the Mormon Church is like that. It's just. I think it's sincere and it's trying to do good. And when I read about Joseph Smith's biographies and like, Rustin Rowling, that's how I see his life as. These people with whom have this inner sense of goodness mostly are trying to build things up, and there's all these flaws and rough people in it and doing things that hurts people. I think on the whole, we're just trying to make it better and grow it and make it more. Closer to the way God would want it to be. Right. So that's how I take it. Yeah. So there is. There is pig kind of stuff, and there's lipstick on pig stuff.
Carey Foushee [01:01:26] Stuff in there.
Scott Turley [01:01:26] But that's way too simple.
John Dehlin [01:01:30] Yeah. You're saying, what's wrong with poetry and literature? Poetry and literature are awesome. Exactly.
Scott Turley [01:01:35] Right?
John Dehlin [01:01:36] That's like, good stuff. Carrie, what would you add to anything to what Scott said?
Carey Foushee [01:01:40] Yeah, so it's like. As opposed to what? You know, it's like if I quote Billy Corgan, you know, it's like, despite all my rage, I'm still just a rat in a cage.
Scott Turley [01:01:50] I mean, I.
Carey Foushee [01:01:52] It's. Even if. And I have spent years out of the church, like, 21 to 26, you know, listening, just living a different life, and you still are listening to philosophy, poetry, music, movies, you know, and, I mean, that's what we want to say on Mormon stories, right? Is that you can be atheist, ex Mormon, all that, and you still have values and ethics and you live a good life and, and you argue for things that matter. Women's rights, feminism, all these great things that we all share and we're persuaded with those things through the arts and through literature, through the whole thing. And so how do we ever decide on a message?
Carey Foushee [01:02:41] I guess that's going back to Christianity. That's the fruits know, are these things creating fruits in my life, you know, in the here and the now that, that enable me to, to feel like it's working, right? To feel like this is real and it's not just another iteration of falsehoods. And you know, I'm constantly, you know, at times going through that where I learn or I redefine different areas of my life. But yeah, it's kind of been a hard struggle at some times over these last six, seven years, you know, in particular down this road. But I have found, I found it worth it and illuminating at times. And so, yeah, you know, I'm enjoying the journey.
John Dehlin [01:03:34] You're bearing a new order Mormon testimony, Kerry. That's what you're doing. I love it. Megan writes for me. I listen to the givens to improve myself, to find a better way to be a Christian, one of love and inclusion. I listen to the GA's for similar messages. When I find messages that don't promote that, I move on. Some gas do talk with this type of message on grace, doubt, etc. And some don't. Is that good stuff? You guys like that?
Scott Turley [01:04:05] Yep, totally.
John Dehlin [01:04:07] Okay, so Kent writes, I wonder, I do wonder if neo apologetics is a long term answer for people throughout their lives. I think for many it's hard for them to straddle the middle view, the middle of road view of Mormonism for an entire lifetime. It appears that eventually you're all in that church is the one and only or completely out you're all in that the church is the one and only or completely out. Okay, this is great, Kerry. I'll ask you then. Scott. So I've been talking forever about this idea of Reformed Judaism that Judaism had to face modernity and science and literalism and historicity 200 years ago, 100 years ago, 50 years ago, and they came up with Reformed Judaism, which now has become the largest branch of Mormonism, sorry, of Judaism, which basically says, you know what, believe in God or don't believe in Moses or don't keep kosher or don't obey the Sabbath or don't.
Progressive and New Order Mormonism Today
John Dehlin [01:05:09] It's more about ritual, it's about community, it's about spirituality. Do you guys think that this sort of emerging New Order Mormonism, new wave Mormonism, progressive Mormonism, whatever you want to call it, is it sustainable in the long term for individuals? And it is sustainable within this church as an institution. Kerry, what's your reaction? And then, Scott, I want to hear yours.
Carey Foushee [01:05:35] Yeah, I guess I would think it is. I mean, that's part of, you know, you go back to your comments before. We don't have what is Mormon doctrine? It's kind of hard, right? I mean, that's what was so nice about McConkie and Fielding Smith is like, we could point to it, we could define it, but it gets harder as time goes on and doesn't. By not having that systematic kind of it all written down and all defined. You know, when we say then, then I think that does open the door for having different understandings and beliefs. You know, I think I remember hearing Patrick Mason talk about the truth cart and he would put less things in the truth cartoon versus And I think that's a lot of things.
Carey Foushee [01:06:19] There probably are some things that are harder to move out of that cart, and they might not ever move out of that cart, you know, to where some people are more uncomfortable with that. So you're gonna have to live with a certain tension in that community if you stay. Because, you know, it's hard when you have a different interpretation sometimes to, you know, to coexist and feel like you're, you know, your belief isn't as valid as theirs. So.
John Dehlin [01:06:49] So you're optimistic about New Order Mormonism, Progressive Mormonism?
Carey Foushee [01:06:56] Yeah, I don't think it, you know, in the end, it has to be Mormonism. Right. It's for it to work. And I think that Mormonism itself has enough that it can. That can infuse it and it just feels more what Mormonism is. I mean, a lot of what the Givens talk about, if you went back to your chaplain, you said, oh, they were talking about how God is this really great guy. He's. He's not a mean person. Right. That. That's part of their. Their message too, I guess.
Scott Turley [01:07:23] We didn't cover.
Carey Foushee [01:07:24] But if you went and said that God is loving and he doesn't, you know, he's not there to punish you, everybody would just be shaking their heads. But when you start to look at the theology of it and you go, well, actually, you know, the Protestants, they, you know, and they do use some of the quotes of some. There's some preacher back in the 1800s, 1700s, that has like, you know, you're like a spider to God.
Carey Foushee [01:07:50] Yeah. So they referenced that in their presentation. They have a slide on that, you know, and they're. So what they're restoring or, you know, in a sense is talking about that, that. That goes over really well in the church, in the chapel.
Carey Foushee [01:08:05] Except sometimes we muddle our theology so much that the things we're actually talking about agree with this guy. You know, they agree with the damnation one. So they're trying to illuminate like, no, the restoration means that, you know, we have an embodied. We have a. You know, we're not. A fall is an ascent. You know, if we take those doctrines seriously, then we'll have, you know, we have better results. But in some ways, people don't have to know theology. They know Heavenly Father is a loving God. So.
Carey Foushee [01:08:38] So I don't know. You know, in some ways I could see that the general authorities, you know, they teach God is loving, but then maybe their theology isn't so well defined that they end up contradicting themselves sometimes. Elder Nelson, but, you know, in terms of some of his stuff.
John Dehlin [01:08:54] Right. Scott, what's your answer about your bullishness about progressive New Order Mormonism?
Scott Turley [01:09:01] I don't. I think I want to say I'm optimistic, although I do understand that's difficult. So I. There are times at church on Sunday where I just don't feel like it's really tough to kind of really express myself fully and authentically. And it's good. I could understand that challenge.
Scott Turley [01:09:23] But I'm hopeful and I guess I'm hopefully optimistic that there is. And I really see the Catholicism, what the Catholic Church does. And I'm not an expert on all these different churches, but I see the Catholic Church, they have a pope, they have this correlated Catholicism, but they also have liberalism in Catholicism. There's these different sects and stuff all thriving in the church. And I kind of see that as a model that I hope Mormonism can get to, where you do have a conservative branch, you have a liberal branch, and they're kind of working together and working off each other, and you still have the authority structure and the hierarchy, which I feel is important for an organization to work, but it holds these two branches intention.
Scott Turley [01:10:10] I kind of feel like we used to have that more because we had Hubie Brown and other liberal Mormons in leadership positions kind of in tension with the more conservative aspect. So for some reason, we've kind of lost some of that. And I feel like it's possible that we'll get that back. I mean, it's hard to know. I could see why People would be negative about it and I could see why people be positive about it. I just. The world is complicated. We're all complicated. It's really, would be really sad to me if we just kicked out all the liberals from the church. That's just not what any church should be doing. So.
John Dehlin [01:10:46] And the fact that, you know, all these people like the Givens are getting book contracts with Deseret Book is a positive sign, right?
Scott Turley [01:10:54] Yeah, for sure. Yes. So, yeah, yeah. And there are, I think more liberal Mormons in leadership, I think, you know, President Uchdorf and others. So yeah, you know, we're all complicated and we're all learning and growing and I think. Yeah, yeah. So hopefully things.
John Dehlin [01:11:12] Let's read a few more comments from our listeners. Kent writes, Bruce R. McConkie took a shot at defining Mormon doctrine and failed. And that's true. The Mormon doctrine is now out of print. So the book that was like defined the Mormonism of my generation has now been mothballed and is out of print. And that really has to be looked at as a rejection by the modern church of Bruce Armaconki Joseph Smith doctrine. Right.
Carey Foushee [01:11:39] I've heard Terrell at the Fireside. He said somebody asked him about that and he said it's not because of lack of sales.
John Dehlin [01:11:48] Yeah, right. Something that, something that Thomas, Thomas wrote in that I think is really interesting to mention. He said before Patrick Mason was here in Arizona a week before the Givens. And it's interesting that both Patrick and the Givens are reaching back to the first century Christianity to define the Restoration today. And that's kind of a sense that I get that we're always continually restoring the Restoration and that we were trying to get prior to kind of the Protestant stuff that was more harsh, maybe Calvinism, I don't know. I'm not a historian or a theologist, but trying to. We have to reach back to a point of time in Christianity where we can sort of validate the approach that we think is useful.
John Dehlin [01:12:39] And I'm gonna also read what Tiani writes. What the Givens are doing is very similar to the Remnant, meaning Denver Snuffer, as far as some of the theology and reinterpretation of Scripture. But the difference is that the Gibbons is don't directly challenge the authority structure, whereas the Remnant movement does. So they're viewed as helping rather than hurting. They toe the line enough to perhaps not get called out on it. That's an interesting point.
John Dehlin [01:13:09] So those are some really good comments from our listeners. Megan writes, the Givens are trying to bring people to Christ without challenging the patriarchal structure. What do you guys think about that? You're always safe if you don't challenge the patriarchy. And is that a good thing? Should they be challenging the patriarchy? Kerry, what do you think? Are you a fan of the patriarch? Are you a fan of the patriarchy, Kerry?
Carey Foushee [01:13:38] No, and I think, you know, sound like an apologist. Right. Because I feel like a lot of that is going away anyhow. To some extent. It's not emphasized. You know, a lot of that is being de Emphasized. And that's. That's kind of how Mormonism works. Right. We just start to de. Emphasize one thing and it kind of falls out of favor rather than, you know, having this big announcement that we're no longer going to speak of it this way. But, you know, you start to see those trends.
Carey Foushee [01:14:09] I. Yeah, I mean, seeing Fiona up there and speak and articulate, you know, if we're just talking patriarchy in terms of, you know, her as a. As a scholar and as a. Just somebody that, you know, you can admire and you recognize how brilliant and she is up there, is to some extent, you know, speaks against the patriarchy when viewed through those kind of old lenses of, you know, the males are the ones, you know, endowed with all the.
Carey Foushee [01:14:47] The intelligence and authority of knowing God and those kinds of things. So, I mean, I would think Fiona just in herself is a symbol against
John Dehlin [01:14:56] that, I have to say. Scott, I want to bring you in, but it's worth noting that the Bobby Givens Gotler. I don't know how to pronounce her last name, but she writes, for what it's worth, as Terrell and Fiona's sister. Guessing she's Terrell's sister, but Fiona's sister in law, I can tell you they're absolutely not acting on the directive of the church, either officially or unofficially. So that's fun to have Terrell's sister kind of opine. Scott, what were you gonna say about the patriarchy?
Scott Turley [01:15:33] Yeah, I think.
John Dehlin [01:15:35] Should they be criticizing the patriarchy or should they be diplomatically working within the patriarchy jerky?
Scott Turley [01:15:39] I think we all have our own roles to play. I was. I had a conversation the other day about Richard Ward. He was talking about if you really want to challenge, I mean, really, you really have to be called to really challenge and advocate for a certain cause. Especially when you're like, the negative. Right. If you're really trying to pose something, you really have to do it with the right spirit. And, you know, if the givens don't feel called to do that. I totally respect what I fully respect what they're doing. I respect what other people are doing who feel called to do otherwise. I think we all have to find our own kind of path. So I definitely am glad that there are people out there challenging the patriarchy. I'll say that I don't necessarily think the givens have to be those people.
John Dehlin [01:16:25] All right, Tiani writes, I agree that the Givenses are honest and authentic. I think they have truly found some aha gems in their research and they're excited about it and want to share it. On the church's end, I think the church is happy to allow, quote, expert apologists to help them any way they can get help, as long as the experts don't directly challenge the authority. The church is happy to let scholarly work express some diverse ideas. Tiana, you're awesome. We need to have you on Mormon stories.
Carey Foushee [01:16:57] There's our woman voice.
Scott Turley [01:16:58] Call her up, get her on.
John Dehlin [01:16:59] I love it. Tiana, if you want to join us, I will actually literally add you to this conversation. So message me if you want to join us. Other women as well. Bobby, if you want to join us and speak on behalf of the Givenses or on behalf of yourself, just message me on Facebook and I'll add you to this, to this conference call. Really quickly. There was a point that was made again on Facebook where basically the cynical people are like, well, if the brethren are teaching it, it doesn't matter what the givens teach. And then somebody else said, well, if it's not in the curriculum, it doesn't matter what the givens teach.
John Dehlin [01:17:36] And then Susan wrote, hey, that's our job. Our job is to introduce these ideas into Sunday school, into Sunday lessons. And if we as progressives step up and just start teaching these ideas, they'll get around. Now, I did that for several years in Elders Quorum. I tried to teach progressive lessons, and it was hard. It was hard because a third of the people slept through the lesson, a third of the people loved it, but a third of the people were angry and were annoyed. And you start fostering contention where people are saying, well, Bruce Armaconka didn't say that or Elder Ballard didn't say that. And then they start complaining to the bishop and scowling at you whenever you teach your lesson.
John Dehlin [01:18:21] And this goes to that point about, is the New Order Mormon middle way sort of sustainable? What is it? What are your guys's thoughts on this idea of being the progressive voice at church? Kerry, let's have you answer. Have you Ever tried to be that progressive voice at church?
Being a Progressive Voice Inside the Church
Carey Foushee [01:18:37] Oh, yeah.
John Dehlin [01:18:37] And if so, how's that worked out for you?
Carey Foushee [01:18:40] You know, I have hits and misses, you know, I mean, but you're doing it.
John Dehlin [01:18:45] You're saying you're doing it. You're in the struggle.
Carey Foushee [01:18:48] Oh, yeah.
John Dehlin [01:18:49] What's that like? What's that been like for you? Has it been positive, negative? You like it?
Carey Foushee [01:18:53] Well, that's what I'm saying. There's areas where I've been really successful with it, and there's areas where I experienced what you've experienced, you know, a little bit where, you know, especially Sunday school, you know, I'm not the teacher up there, so, you know, just having the person raising their hand with an alternative viewpoint doesn't always go well. So, yeah, they're definitely our challenges. I don't know that. You know, I've listened to some of your podcasts, and if people have good answers for this, I definitely don't have a better answer than theirs.
Carey Foushee [01:19:30] I just keep at it, and I kind of recognize that's just part of the game, you know, it's part of. It's just part of that struggle. And I try to allow people to kind of be wherever they're at. And, you know, I push back, though. I'm not. I'm not afraid to push back and make comments. And sometimes you have to just stand alone, you know, sometimes you have to be willing to speak out against your friends. Right. On different ideas. And that's when I try to go back to those basic Mormon and Christian principles, you know, that sit there and reward the person with courage.
Carey Foushee [01:20:07] And, you know, Jesus is standing alone against all these things. You know, there's a lot of there. And so, you know, I take, I guess, some refuge in that and. Yeah, you know.
John Dehlin [01:20:19] No, that's good. Scott, how about you?
Scott Turley [01:20:23] No, I totally agree. In fact, it was fast. It was testimony. I mean, for us, because we had state conference the week before, and I got up and bore my testimony, and it was all about what the fireside. I gave testimony of a Christ who heals and a God who mourns and the Holy Ghost, a Spirit who comforts that. We were all broken. Right. That was my testimony, and I really. And I didn't get any pushback because, like I said, that's very in the mix. So there's a lot of overlap. There's a lot of. In the core theology, there's a lot of progressive, compassionate.
Scott Turley [01:20:57] And so there's a way to word and phrase things in a way that just. That doesn't directly make people feel. Because you want to be able to speak the language, right? The goal in church is to connect with people.
Scott Turley [01:21:12] So rather than always challenge, you want to find connection. And, and then in the connection I can grow, I can learn from others and they can hopefully learn from me. And I try to do that. Lately I've been, you know, it's hard sometimes in Sunday school because I sometimes I'm the person sleeping or just reading my own stuff because it's so hard sometimes stay engaged. But I definitely, that is a challenge I try to take on is just kind of being a voice and sharing other points of view in ways that lead more kind of breadth to the conversation. For sure.
John Dehlin [01:21:45] I love it. What about people that say that the church needs to be more accountable, that apologists are used in a way as a shield to keep the church from just saying, look, we've taught harmful stuff, we've taught wrong stuff, and we apologize. You know, we're taught the steps of repentance. And Dallin H. Oaks is on record as saying we don't apologize. And yet many people, I think, you know, this topic of apologetics and neo apologetics really strikes a chord with people.
Accountability, Apologists, and Closing Reflections
John Dehlin [01:22:22] And a lot of people who have left the church get really triggered by all this. And I think it's at least partly because they want to see some accountability. They want to see the church make restitution, apologize, make restitution.
John Dehlin [01:22:43] And apologists maybe sometimes are seen as a shield to keep the church from being accountable. What do you guys think about that feeling that many sort of post Mormons have? Can you empathize with it at all?
Carey Foushee [01:22:58] Oh, yeah. I mean, I've had, I have those feelings myself at times. You know, I've gone through and I get frustrated. You know, there's a certain type of apologist that just, you know, is like nails on a chalkboard for me too, when at least for me, you know, the apologist that has to just toe the party line, whatever that's kind of been traditionally thought of, you know, that's what they're, you know, that's what their arguments are. And I think that's the negative kind of apologist.
Carey Foushee [01:23:32] And perhaps everybody from time to time is that apologist. But, you know, the neo apologists I think you're talking about are ones that are willing to say, you know, there, there were things done in the past that this isn't right and this wasn't here, but they, I think they still come at it with love, with an understanding and with forgiveness.
Carey Foushee [01:23:56] For that person. And I think that's what, to me, I see that modeled in Terrell Gibbons at times where he's able to criticize or critique different theologies, doctrines, practices, maybe both modern or past. But he does it in a way that he still puts forward his support of the brethren, of the church, of the institution, and so that is what allows him to succeed.
Carey Foushee [01:24:39] I don't know what it's going to take for the institution as a church to. To be like that. I mean, you know, I get frustrated many times and still feel that way. I wish they do this, you know, and I have a hard time with everything that takes place, you know, so.
John Dehlin [01:24:57] Sure. All right, Scott, what's your answer to that?
Scott Turley [01:25:01] Yeah, again, I just don't see these. The neapologists really. They're really speaking for themselves. I don't think there's a coordinated kind of their. That they represent the church in a sort of way. So I think.
John Dehlin [01:25:15] But that's true. But some would say they're being used. And so the bigger question is, can you empathize with the idea that before we can have these nuanced approaches, that the church leaders themselves need to sort of acknowledge their own mistakes, their own accountability, their own diminished status. And in some sense, that's what Ballard did last week when Ballard said, I may be general authority, but I'm not authority of all things in general. Because if the brethren would just say, hey, we're all trying our best. We all make mistakes. We're all just given our best opinions. Sometimes we get it wrong. We've gotten it wrong in the past. Sometimes. Sometimes it's really hurt people. We're sorry. We're going to try and do better work with us here. That's kind of what a lot of people are looking for.
Scott Turley [01:26:06] I agree. I think a lot of what the church. A lot of the ways the church is hard for people would be a lot easier to take if they just did that. I think that's at core when they project themselves as not only official leaders of the church, but these, like, people on the pedestal can do no wrong. Speak for God. Everything they say is exactly from God. Right? When that's the notion that's projected, that's the way I viewed them. That. That can get. That can be really. That could makes everything so much harder because you have to, like, try to figure out, okay, how does. How is polygamy from God? How is blacks in the priesthood from God? If we could just admit, hey, we just made some mistakes, we got this wrong. Right? Which is it just eases the whole experience. The whole experience for everybody. Right. So I know.
Carey Foushee [01:26:55] I don't know if it does it for everybody, Scott.
John Dehlin [01:26:56] Right.
Carey Foushee [01:26:56] It's like then all of a sudden you're like, wait a minute. What is true? What is the red. I thought I would join this church and they were going to tell me, and it was all. I mean, then you're disillusioned and.
Scott Turley [01:27:09] Yeah, you're right.
Carey Foushee [01:27:10] It opens a whole nother can of worms.
Scott Turley [01:27:13] You're right. It's a tough. It's tough. No, I sympathize with the people who want that. I also sympathize with the church who. Maybe some of them would like to do that. But. Yeah, it's. I don't. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
John Dehlin [01:27:29] And so I think what we're seeing is, is that this process is messy and it takes time.
Scott Turley [01:27:34] Right, right, right, right.
John Dehlin [01:27:36] And what we're seeing is what we're living in 2017 with the Givens, with the Bushmans, with Patrick Mason, with Ballard, with Oakes, is we're just living the messiness of the time it takes for a church to become more diverse and more mature.
Scott Turley [01:27:54] Right.
John Dehlin [01:27:54] And I guess we could say kudos to the Givens and the Masons and, you know, the Colvins and the Witherspoons and the Turley and the Foshees. I don't. I don't remember how to pronounce your name. Kudos to everyone who's in that conversation.
Scott Turley [01:28:11] Yes.
John Dehlin [01:28:12] All right, I'm going to give. Kerry, I'll give you a final word, and then, Scott, I'll give you the last word. We'll wrap up.
Carey Foushee [01:28:19] Okay.
John Dehlin [01:28:21] What would you like to sort of say in closing as we sort of look on, as you've experienced one of the Givens firesides, as we look at the Christ who heals, as we look at the role of neapologetics. What's your. What summary do you want to leave our listeners with in this episode?
Carey Foushee [01:28:43] Man, that's hard. Mine goes blank thinking like that. But, you know, I still just struck by how little there were of people there. You know, that's kind of what I feel like, too, is, like, I do a lot of this. You know, I'm reading these books, I'm thinking all these things, and for the most part, I don't have a lot of people doing even talk about religion with people at church aren't really interested in talking about those kinds of things. I've kind of grown to accept that and appreciate that, like my own Wife, she would rather just go to church on Sunday and most of the time, and then, you know, just basically she's orientated by the gospel.
Carey Foushee [01:29:27] She lives her life and, you know, we kind of live those ways, but she. She just doesn't really care about the details. Like, you know, in a lot of ways, she'll let me talk to her a little bit, you know, express this and that, but she's just out of complete non interest in theology and all these details of religion in general. You know, she's. And I get that. And then I think in some ways there's only certain people that are going to be that interested in these differences. So in that way, I'm a little more pessimistic about these things actually mattering in terms of lots of people getting involved, because I think there's just not that many people that really care about those details until you have to.
Carey Foushee [01:30:11] And then being in these online communities of Mormon stories and Mormon matters and the ATF and all those is there's always people that have a hard time with, because I know I'm gonna sound apologist to them, is because the brethren don't sanction this. And that's always the stopper, is, you know, they just don't feel like it's legitimate. And I don't know how I got there, but I did. I just got to where it. I didn't. I didn't need that. That external authority approval, you know, that. That's sort of what I ended up learning is I didn't need that. I don't necessarily need them to still be able to feel Mormon and feel genuinely and grow.
Carey Foushee [01:31:00] Yeah, there's still tension in dealing with that. And, you know, when I go to church and stuff like that, but that's why I go to the givens. That's why I read these books, is because I'm still, you know, working on it. And I'll leave you with that.
John Dehlin [01:31:14] I love it. All right, Kerry, you've been great. Thanks for joining us. Scott, give us. You get the final word.
Scott Turley [01:31:20] All right. I just want to say too, that I think this is. This goes way beyond just Mormonism, because again, I had a recent conversation about Richard War. I kind of feel like he's doing the same thing from a Catholic point of view. And I just think there's these thinkers and out there just broadly theologians and in all different faiths and there's others, too, that I need to dive into.
Scott Turley [01:31:47] They're saying a lot of the same things about compassion and connection and wholeness and Bigness. Right. And I just find it beautiful and poetic and big. While at the same time, I do agree we need standards and boundaries, and we don't want to be total messes. Right. We don't want to. We want to have these lives that are good and.
Scott Turley [01:32:13] And stuff. So I just. I find it really beautiful and it light. So much light here, and I love being here, and I wish there was more of it, as Carrie was saying, but I just. Yeah, to me, it's just a beautiful thing. And I really appreciate. I can't wait to buy the book and to read it and dig into it. There's a whole stack of other books I want to read and dig into and bring it into my lived experience and in my conversations with people in church on Sunday as well.
Carey Foushee [01:32:45] So.
Scott Turley [01:32:46] No, it's great stuff and I love talking about it, so appreciate you having
John Dehlin [01:32:50] me on in some way. You guys at A Thoughtful Faith are kind of carriers and spreaders of the light, right? You're trying to just say, let's have more light, let's have more love, and let's find a way to spread it, even though it's just scratching the surface. It's a couple thousand people, really. Right?
Carey Foushee [01:33:08] Yeah.
John Dehlin [01:33:10] But that's a start. And it's a real act of love that you guys are sort of engaging in, I think.
Scott Turley [01:33:15] Yeah, I think so. I hope so.
John Dehlin [01:33:17] So shout out to you, Scott, to you, Carrie, to all the good people at A Thoughtful Faith, to the Givens and the Bushmans and the Masons and all those guys. I really liked our conversation. So, Scott and Kerry, you're awesome. Thanks for joining us. Please, let's get some women on these discussions. That's an open invitation.
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Terryl has already given the story about why he’s writing these books. Here is a brief summary:
Last year, Terryl, a literature and religion professor at the University of Richmond, publicly criticized the LDS publishing arm for abandoning theology in favor of more chatty, anecdote-laden descriptions of Mormon teachings.
Deseret Book CEO Sheri Dew heard about it, he says, and offered to publish such a book and challenged him to write it.
There’s no conspiracy, there’s no shadow-theology movement, he believed all along it was there, he believes it was well within the fold and the problem was that DB had stayed away from publishing it from an editorial decision (frankly a decision which was good for the business, write and publish to your base who buy books).
Who has claimed a conspiracy, John?
I listened to the whole interview carefully and got no sense that any of the participants advocated there is a “conspiracy.” In fact, I think they uniformly shot down that notion when it came up. Maybe you heard that different than me.
Larry, I simply saw it mentioned in the first posting. This stuff makes me nuts anymore in our highly politicized, polarized culture. I wanted to debunk that, as I feel that this website sometimes tends toward the salacious and sensational aspects of Mormonism on the fringes. I came to this site 5 years ago for some spiritual enlightenment and uplift during a difficult time of life — post-Mormon. It seems that lately I’m not finding many nuggets of inspiration here, simply antagonism toward Mormonism. Personally, I’m finding no joy in putting down any Faith these days. I’ve moved beyond allowing nit wits in high places to take my personal power and right to happiness away. Perhaps this is why I found the Given’s messages thought provoking, hopeful and inclusive. It’s not only good news, it’s new news. Good stuff.
Despite all the rage I’m just an other rat in a cage
( smashing pumpkins )
Despite all my rage I am still just a rat in a cage
(correct quote of smashing pumpkins)
>”Deseret Book CEO Sheri Dew heard about it, he says, and offered to publish such a book and challenged him to write it.”
Sure, and the first book published by Givens **just happens** to be about managing a faith crisis (see Crucible of Doubt). And then Deseret Book **just happens** to follow that book up with Planted, by Mason. And then, not content to let others collect all the royalties, Dew herself got on the faith crisis train and had Deseret Book publish her own book about dealing with waning faith (see Worth the Wrestle).
Of course there’s no “conspiracy,” but Terryl claiming that he was approached to write something about “theology” seems like a bit of a stretch. Maybe there’s a theological slant to it, but he was really being asked to help slow the exodus of members by appealing to the more intellectual-type members and the Church is so desperate (and so short of answers from the actual Q15) that they finally agreed to publish more of Givens’ stuff. The Christ Who Heals is nothing more than an extension of this effort (which is obviously also a good decision for the business since I’m certain that Dew is smart enough to recognize that preserving a dwindling customer base should be done by whatever means necessary–even if it results in new doctrinal nuance).
Scott,
You might want to get your facts straight. The Givens signed a 3 book contract with Deseret Book centered around God and Christ. The first book was The God Who Weeps. The second book was The Crucible of Doubt. The third book is The Christ Who Heals. All of them are very good books, in fact the only ones I will read from Deseret. I am not a member and have no intentions of returning to the church.
There is no conspiracy with the Givens, as much as some ex-mo malcontents would like everyone to believe.
You may have issues with historical and policy issues of the LDS church, as many of us do. But a simple act of an author wanting to delve into the nature of God, His Son, and ancient Christian roots is not an act of conspiracy.
Some of the nutty stuff I’ve seen on here in the comments section has made me realize why I rarely come to this site anymore.
I attended a Salt Lake City fireside ( Faith Again ) where Fiona lead a really wonderful discussion that was Christ centered, pointing out differences in beliefs about Christ dating back to the separation of eastern and western Christianity. It was an upbeat, loving discussion about the need that all men and women on earth have for “healing”. The discussion centered around man not being a sinful creature, but a co-creator with God and worthy of all of God’s choicest blessings. Many comments came up about current LDS policies and cultural issues that seem counter to Christ’s teachings and message. Most in attendance were LDS and some were struggling with faith issues in these current times. Fiona was open, honest and ever bearing the torch of “good news” and the message of a loving Father and Son. It ended up being a very touching and emotional evening for many who were there. I am not currently LDS or practicing. I found the evening to be a really great experience that has stayed with me for many days. It was honest. If there are any ill feelings out there about the Givens being apologists or that there is some conspiracy — put that to rest. This is not so. They are lovely individuals that myself and many of my non-LDS friends respect and enjoy being taught by. They teach so much that should be taught freely in LDS worship, which isn’t. They are honest and open, which is so appreciated. In the fireside, there was discussion about the false traditions and teachings of our current culture revolving around worthiness, guilt, sin and class stratification within the current church and some other sects. The evening ended with the good news that we all have a loving, kind advocate in Christ and an approachable, personal and loving Father who want to teach, love and accept each of us.
How do the Givens not see that they are teaching their own gospel. The philosophies of “Givens mingled with scripture.
Eric,
You’d need to attend a discussion with them. They go way back to ancient christianity and follow it through the eastern orthodox church to modern day beliefs. They fully support Joseph Smith’s teachings. There is nothing in what they write or say that contradicts what God has said. It’s not your normal sunday school lesson stuff. Take a deeper look at it. Best!
And that’s fine, but what they are teaching is not in conformity with SLC and the Q15. Until it is, I’m no longer interested in trying to be a liberal, cutting edge Mormon.
Jefferson,
what the Givens teach is in conformity with Christ and His teachings. And frankly, nothing in their books or lectures is in discordance with LDS church doctrines. If you took the time to dig deeper, you would see this. I hope you can. Just because something is outside the correlation program, does not mean it is wrong or heretical. The Givens truly believe and practice the 13th Article of Faith regarding seeking truth from wherever it comes — this includes ancient writings. Too bad modern day LDS people are too afraid to do some digging on their own outside of the Mormon scriptures. If they did, they’d be encouraged and enlightened greatly.
NAMASTE!
Douglas, the LDS church contradicts what God has said both through the Bible and Book of Mormon. The LDS church has contradicted prophets of the latter days if not thrown them under the bus completely. I only have a problem with the Givens for profit method of helping supposed prophets and apostles of Jesus Christ bring clarity to the body of his church. Book sales and firesides promoting what is clearly not taught by the bretheren themselves. I should mention that I do not single out the Givens, Deseret book is filled with books on this same topic as well as thousand of topics that are eaten up as if they adding to or enhancing the gospel of Jesus Christ. There was a time when Christ was our way back to heaven, not this book or that book, or this philosophy or that! All was supposedly done through Christ, yet all I see around me parts of him being repackaged and sold as a path to salvation. Lest you think I am raise my self up as a self-righteous follower of Jesus, I no believe in him nor can muster a seed of faith for him. I only have a fading hope that if he is the son of god then it truly is finished in and through him.
This episode was thought provoking for me, as are many. What is and isn’t doctrine? Who is a hardliner and who isn’t? Its all so frequently in flux.
One time I called my Dad while I was at college and I was talking to him about this idea that we only had this life to try to do better and then we would be assigned to the kingdom our actions put us in. He started talking to me about line upon line and how that is what attracted him to the religion. I found what he was talking about in a Packard talk (yes I just said Packard) and I can not remember if my dad directed me to it or I just found it after we spoke.
I was going nuts during this episode wanting to find that talk, I believe I wrote it down in a journal so I am going to find it. But here is the basic story-God still progresses and so will we…FOR ETERNITY.
It is this flavor, that Joseph Smith’s teaching had, that did not assign children to hell because they did not get baptized/christened before dying. It is the belief that there was nothing so bad that you could not try again and that you, yourself could talk to God and work it out.
There are many conflicting talks and doctrines written in manuals, but are not many of the figures in history a ball of contradictions: Jesus, Moses, Thomas Jefferson, Muhammad, both of the President Roosevelt’s, Mother Teresa… to name a very few. Do we not all contradict ourselves, from one context to the next? Don’t we grow and learn more and experiment and screw up? ISN’T THAT THE POINT? Isn’t science always seemly contradicting itself as something is discovered that changes everything else?
I really do not see myself as ever being a believer in the one true church again. Yet there are a few things that still just speak to me, and produce a transcendent response in my mind and body that is just as strong as my shear misery as I heard the November 2015 letter from the church. How could some people be rejected? How could children being rejected possibly be from God? What human frailty had messed this up so bad? What was I missing? What was everyone missing?
My Bishop asked me to give the prayer to close that meeting and I literally cried to the Lord to help us all see better and not leave ANYONE out, and for people to have a desire to turn this around and all end up in a much better place. There is no way that was not a central message at the beginning of the church that Joseph Smith helped create. WE can “commune with Jehovah”. We can become something better. You can believe this whether you think the First Vision was really one all inclusive vision or whether is was a series of enlightenment that tapped into the human need for a new way to interact with God, or a more personal transcendence to something better that you were before. It is a extremely useful mode of acting whether there is a God involved or just a human mind that can shape and change and interact with the world around it.
I do not pretend to know all the Given’s motives, but I will say the “Crucible of Doubt” stopped a destructive free fall I was on. I actually was directed to their interview on Mormon Stories before I read the book.
It started a series of painful workouts that surely tore some spiritual muscles. In the end I rejected some things as just lipstick on pigs, but I was the better for reading it and experimenting on some new ways of thinking about things.
Celeste,
The God Who Weeps actually was what stop me in free fall from some tough circumstances that I was in with the death of a child and other family dynamics. The Givens stopped me dead in my tracks on dark, wet, winter evening, as I listened to them on a radio rebroadcast from KUER. They talked about it being okay to have a simple faith and belief that wasn’t rigid , as I’d been conditioned with in the Church. They talked about a loving, personal and vulnerable God. I sat in my car in the garage and wept as I listened. The things they were saying were things I’d always believed in, but had not been taught in church or at home. It was like a new breath of life.
As I read the book, it completely changed my views on who God is. So different from the Mormon God that I’d been raised with. It has reframed life for me and how I view my place at the table of life. I’m deeply grateful to the Givens for their willingness and passion to reveal nuggets of truth that have come down through ancient writers, philosophers, seers and mystics.
I’ve since become friends with the Givens and have found them to be kind, generous, average people who struggle with the same issues of life and family that all of us do. They humbly confess in a very human and real way, that they don’t have the answers to everything in life. They have a realistic view on life, that allows doubt, pain, suffering and being honest. Yet, they offer a view that we are not alone in this world. We have attending angels and fellow travelers, who walk with us. They remind us that the good news is a beacon when we are downtrodden. While they are apologists for the restored gospel, they preach that the restoration is still continuing. That we are all part of it. Their message is hopeful. And in our times today, I welcome it.
And yet, they continue to support a church that continues to preach a different message. It continues to claim to ultimately be the one and only solution to the human condition, that at the end of the day, the highest reward will only be meted out to those who are in good standing with the LDS Church of Wilford Woodruff.
You talk about the “Mormon God” you had been raised with. You talk about having your life reframed. That’s great. But isn’t it a little strange that the men who claim authority from God weren’t the ones who were able to help you move beyond the Mormon God of your youth. Isn’t it rather telling that they were not the ones to “reframe your life?”
If the restoration is still continuing, then there is nothing stable upon which to build our testimonies. All we have to believe in is the men who claim the exclusive authority to move the goalposts of the restoration to the next level. It was one of these men who told you the restoration is ongoing (Uchtdorf). Doesn’t that tell you something?
The Givens may only be a half-step away from Mormon Orthodoxy, but even they, unfortunately, are incapable of making the logical next half-step. They are trapped, too. Usefully trapped by the Church, I might add.
MUST LISTEN! for TBM, ExMos and General Authorities. This is a glimpse into humans trying to rationalize the irrational. Synopsis: John interviews two active Mormon men who just got back from a Givens fireside and are pumped about Terryl and Fiona’s mental gymnastic approach to messy Mormon doctrine. They seem to be adopting a similar approach to help them tamp down their own cognitive dissonance. Pro Tip for Exmos: Keep tissues handy because you will be biting through your lip during this 95 minute cringe. Stay to the end when they award the Good Housekeeping Seal of Approval to the current state of Mormon patriarchy.
Larry, just for the record, I may have miscommunicated my position on patriarchy, but I do find it a disturbing aspect of Mormonism. I probably soft-pedaled my position on that more than I should have in the interview.
I’m trying to walk a fine line. I do get angry and frustrated with the church, but I also feel the institution as a whole is trying to do good in the world. I want to be loving, patient and forgiving, but I don’t want to tolerate it’s bad parts.
Sorry if you got the “Good Housekeeping Seal of Approval” for me, I regret portraying that in a public way. (I have 3 young daughters growing up in the church and this is by far one of my biggest fears for them).
I’ve just made it an hour into this episode. With all due respect, nearly every response from these guests was a word salad. As an exercise, listen to one of John’s questions and then listen to the response, then try to summarize it in plain English.
John: What do you think about X?
Guests: Well that part didn’t really resonate with me and it’s not what I focus on. I’m really optimistic about things and we should all remember that God heals us. You know, there are lot of different aspects to things so we should be articulate and thoughtful more often. There are lots of ways to find what you’re looking for.
Um…. what? Most of the time the guests didn’t even address the content of John’s questions.
It sound like they are both trying to make the church work and really did not want to make waves on a Podcast.
Bob,
I’ll take that criticism, but can you give me a specific example and I’ll be happy to address that here? I waffle a lot on my spiritual journey – it’s a long, complicated road. Mormonism for me is almost entirely about relationships and for better or for worse most of my family network is tied into the church.
I’m still on a journey of research and discovery, but digging through all of the messy aspects of church history and theology is one priority among many.
But having said that, I’m more than happy to get into one of the questions with you now.
All theology aside, I find the Givens’ poetry, intellectualism and emphasis on a softer God a welcome relief from the usual Jell-O Belt brand of Mormonism. I hope that they are the harbingers of a new way of being for my friends and family in the Church.
I am a gay man and completely fed up with the policy crap from the official institution of the church; which is based in fear, prejudice, and out of step with social norms . Most members have been great neighbors, friends and colleagues otherwise. Many don’t fully understand the doctrines and the roots thereof of their own faith. They choose to live a simpler existence, which is fine.
I have chosen to continue to believe in a loving Father and in a loving brother Jesus, but choose not to practice religiously. Week-to-week Mormonism as seen in worship services ( ala the correlation program) are indeed a Jello brand of religion. I have no current intentions of returning to organized faith. But somehow out of the seeds of discontent that are rife among members at present, there seems to be a new brand of Mormon who is becoming more aware of global social issues and more educated in their place in it. Also in the ancient roots of their faith and the promises of God to all men and women, not just the LDS. Somehow I find hope in this, in spite of a Faith that has caused much hurt and suffering to some.
The Given’s are bittersweet taste… First, you are moved by their words. They suggest a more open excepting version of Mormonism. It feels REFRESHING and perhaps the answer to your personal struggles with the church. Their voices are amazing. Clear. Inviting. You know they are speaking the truth at times.
Then, it hits you. It hits you hard. Almost everything they say would never be spoken in General Conference by today’s leaders.
Like Adam Miller, I love many of the positions the Given’s take. It’s a more accepting version of Christianity which many of us are looking for. Unfortunately, it’s just not Mormonism.
The hard part, switching to something else after decades of thinking and acting in a certain way. All the time I think something and respond to someone like the Givens, so relieved. But then the next night I have a nightmare that I am in a church setting and I am seeing people be hurt. In the nightmare I get up and scream “stop” and walk out. I it helps me learn another thing that I do not accept any longer. I think I will stop going, but I have 4 kids all on different pages with the church. I have a husband, that is on his own journey.. We are the guardians for his sister who has a mind of a young child. One of those 4 kids is married. Its not just my self that I have to figure out, and I do not know if mentally I can handle a clean break. Do I want a clean break?
Doug, Emma, Todd, and anyone else interested it seems like a process. It is hard to change so many thoughts at once. Especially when you realize how many things are much deeper a part of your automatic response than you thought. And how there are somethings that just resonate and always will. And some of those things that resonate are really good things.
Sorry newbie.
John
I’m so disappointed I could hardly wait for this interview to end more of the apologetic attitude flowery words running in circles never talking about the facts very disturbing facts about about history and origin of all that we believe
Apologetics and the Givens are trying to create a different church it’s not the Mormon Church that Joseph Smith says came from God
If they know the true disturbing facts about the church its origin and Joseph Smith then they are in effect ignoring it or accepting it— or even hiding it
I am just so tired of people ignoring the simple basic very disturbing facts about what Joseph Smith said and did and what our church is based on
If they want a new church then let them leave the Mormon church and create a new church but they’re not even talking about what the true doctrine of the Mormon church is— and imagine the fame and money and esteem they might lose if they talked about the truth and left the church . they would have to find a whole new career and whole new life
i’m sorry but to me people like that are very shallow and they are more interested in what they can get than acknowledging the truth and turning from evil— they say what the people want to hear instead of the truth about the religion
To me it’s disgusting because the Givens are famous for for what?? They ignore the most basic doctrine Joseph Smith taughtwhich makes the Mormon church different than others—And it’s the smiths new ideas and the differences that make the Mormon church different and unique from other Christian churches
Talking about Jesus Christ —the good that inspires and fills us with love is fine but it’s not unique to the Mormon church and it isn’t the basis of our docttine
The Givens love what they’re doing because they’re famous ——people love them The leaders love them
They are-making lots of money for basically just saying love one another they’re not dealing with the cold hard facts of who and what the Mormon church has been and is today
When they give the impression that this is the basis of the doctrine of the Mormon church they are misleading and ignoring the facts and in that sense I think it’s dishonest
Listening to them makes it even harder to be motivated to go and search for the real facts and truth about the origin of our doctrine and Joseph Smith
It’s like mommy at night pulling up the covers over you and telling you there’s no monsters—- but in this case there’s many monsters
It’s very difficult to listen to your guests because they won’t admit that the facts about Joseph Smith —what he said and did and the origin of the church —-are bad and disturbing and make it very doubtful that he was a prophet or that what he did came from God
If they admit those facts how could they say this is the true church or even a Church that teaches good doctrine
I really wish you could have somebody in your conversation who was informed about the Givens and could have really challenged this conversation which seem to be very one sided about all the givens are great and that’s it
It’s disgusting how they keep people from searching out the truth of the Mormon church by distracting them about universal ideas of love and Jesus
The bottom line is if Jesus were here he would not support all the very disturbing and bad things the church has done and taught and is continuing to do so today
Jesus was willing to stand up and say that the religion he was in was wrong in many ways The Givens may say they are following Jesus and yet they don’t have the courage to stand up like Jesus and say something is evil when it is even at the peril of his life and eventually crucifixion he had the courage to speak The truth
against what he saw as evil
If the Givens Really wanted to be like Christ they would not be afraid to speak about the evil disturbing truth about the church and it’s doctrine and by doing that they release people from the chains of the Mormon church just like Jesus released his followers from the chains of the Jewish church
The monsters are all in your head. All of this is in your head. In fact, everything on this website and others like it is just a discussion/argument about what is going on in your heads. All of this garbage in your heads has become your false reality. But really nothing here has anything to do with reality. When all those “monsters”, or the church, or whatever you all are afraid of, come to you in the physical world and start hurting you in the physical world then we might have something to talk about. Then you might have a legitimate case. When God actually shows up and hits you with a hammer that really exists then we might be able to discuss whether or not he is angry with you. Until then, you’re just drafting up the boogeyman. Forgive the choice of words, but you’re all just a bunch of babies. Too weak, too childlike, too easily offended, too insecure to stand up and figure out what you are. And what the hell you’re going to believe. Constantly letting others define your worth. Constantly seeking for someone else “with authority” to tell you you’re good and your enemies really were the children of Satan. Constantly worked up over the imperfections of others, even those of people who lived decades, centuries ago in different cultures. Constantly viewing yourselves as the defenders and definers of morality and truth. No one but you has it figured out and if you could just go back to Joseph Smith’s days, you’d straighten things out, by God. If the Green Lantern really existed (it does in your fantacies) you actually believe it would come to you. This goes for everyone in your mentally ill church (not religion) and society. THIS is one of the most damaging beliefs you’ve happily let your church teach you. Namely, that you are special, chosen, and have some sort of mission to fulfill. You ate the “doctrine” up with great glee. You don’t see that gem debated on this site. It justifies the activist you are. But only activists of your false reality, your fantasy, where you are the chosen, you save everyone else with your clarity on truth and justice, and the evilness of everyone else who doesn’t see the world you’ve constructed, which only exists in your head. And the way you save them? Sitting at a desk writing a website, a newslettter, a blog, a comment to a post, doing an interview. Pathetic, embarrassing, weak, false. All the byproduct of a people who really lack for nothing in the physical world. The byproduct of an unbelievably affluent society full of self-appointed chosen people here on a mission to rescue all those people who just don’t get it. The best you could all do for humanty is get over yourselves.
But you’ll keep on. You need that dopamin kick. You’ll keep on “standing up”. You’ll keep on “making your voice heard”. “Everyone will hear me roar”. …as if that gives you power.
Todd, one of the more interesting comments I’ve read in a long, long time. I don’t mean here on mormon stories – just the internet in general.
I’d love to hear you vamp on this a bit more. If you don’t have anywhere to direct me, I’ll just digest this nugget for a while.
Seriously, thanks for unloading your thoughts. I dig it.
I do have something you might be interested in, but we’d need to connect in a different forum. It will change your life. No, it’s not a doctrine, or a philosophy, and I haven’t seen Jesus.
Tod,
What great projects are you involved in helping to advance humanity in this wonderful world of “reality”? You gave quite a rant of throwing a large diverse group of people with different ideas “all in their heads” into the same monolithic group, when that isn’t close to the truth of the “reality” of their personal lives. Your frustration with the church and over-zealous members is understandable, but a broad-stroke judgement of all, is, in the words of Christopher Hitchens, “enough to make a cat laugh”!
I had a neighbor who famously used to say, “whoa be unto the neighbor of the man who is unhappy with himself”……..
Hi EET,
Today a story came out about a woman that committed suicide because of online bullying. With that context in mind, reread my rant above.
Todd, I was just like you not to long ago. A believer who could not see any vulnerability within the one true church. So, I understand your belief that the monsters are a creation of our minds. I now see that it was Joseph Smith that created a God and the monsters. I am thankful to be rid of both.
Hey Eric,
I’m often not a good communicator, so I’ll take the blame. But I’m not sure what it was in my comment that indicated I cannot see any vulnerability within the LDS church. Are you sure we’re really that alike?
What is it you mean by “church”? And by vulnerability do you mean weakness and/or falsehood? If so, what are the vulnerabilities you’re talking about?
What do you mean you now see that Joseph Smith created a God and the monsters? What do you see? I’m looking around right now and I don’t see anything like that. Are you following my point?
I don’t believe any human can create a God or a monster. A human can certainly behave like a monster, if we mean trying to hurt someone. And none of these questions were asked with an argumentative tone.
It is my belief that the entire foundation of the LDS church is based on a false narrative. It is my belief that JS created a Mormon god that contradicts himself regularly. The monster are the enemy’s of the church who will always trying to tear it down when the only real enemy is the truth. I apologize for assuming any common ground and fear that you are the one who assumed that there was any attempt on my part to be argumentative.
Todd,
You need to reread your own words again, and ask yourself if your characterization of all those listening and commenting, is your real target audience. Most of the good people that are participating on this site, are already either out of the church or transitioning out. Some have to deal with keeping peace in families while they help expose them to new ideas rather than just bullying them out of the church. It is often better to help them figure things out on their own with helpful input and a little empathy for each special case. This site is very helpful in helping with this goal and giving perspective with other’s experiences.
Perhaps you may still think that this approach makes us as you say, ” a bunch of babies. Too weak, too childlike, too easily offended, too insecure to stand up and figure out what you are. And what the hell you’re going to believe. ” ….and you go on and on with your proclamation that may be appropriate for as I mentioned in my email, the “over-zealous” members and leaders, but it misses the mark for this audience.
Also, by the way, you never answered my question for you in my first comment, that has to do with solutions to problems and making the world a better place.
As for your question, I wasn’t interested in answering it because I knew it was rhetorical and asked to imply I’m not doing anything positive. It wasn’t a genuine inquiry.
I’m departing this conversation. Good luck!
Emma,
I think you can spend an entire podcast on all of the ways Joseph Smith got stuff wrong and all the ways the Mormon church has caused harm and suffering. I have felt it personally. I don’t agree with certain aspects of the modern church. I don’t in any way believe Joseph Smith’s polygamy was inspired, rather a huge mistake.
I didn’t go there in this podcast because the interview was on the fireside and on this one fairly narrow idea brought up by the Given’s.
I grant you this view of Christ is not centrally part of the current Mormon teaching, though some of it is. But the interview was mostly just focused on this idea. And the idea resonated.
For me religion can (and largely is) be something highly individual and personal. I can live my religion in ways that are personal to me and I try to – pulling from everywhere I can.
My personal feeling is that rather than blow it all up and start again, we have these existing institutions. I think they are worth saving. I believe I expressed that in the interview in fact.
Definitely interesting, but I find that the interviewees are very characteristic of active LDS today. Few read. Instead of taking for granted what an apologist says about the beginnings of Christianity at a given time, a member needs to research those areas himself. There is a large amount of study in those areas by heads of divinity schools in major U.S. Universities.
Yesterday, I talked to an active LDS who, when asked if she had read the essays, gave the familiar answer, “Never heard of them.” Asking the member if she would go to the Church website and read them, the answer was, “I don’t have time. I’m busy doing the Lord’s work.” I had the wife of a bishop tell me, in our home as my wife and I were struggling with historical issues, “I will not go there because that is anti-Mormon stuff put there by Satan.” I have talked to many that are just plain afraid to read them. Weren’t these essays approved by the Brethren?
And whenever I ask someone, whether mainstream Protestant or Mormon, if they have read and studied the Bible, they say yes. But upon my asking simple questions they haven’t a clue. For my over 40 years of activity in the Church, I never read and studied either the Old or the New Testaments.
But since my non-attending, I have studied a lot, and have really been surprised at the facts. One glaring fact seems to be that there is no evidence that Christ ever existed. And even the Bible talks of having witnesses (That is why witnesses are so important in Mormonism.) to verify things. But Joseph Smith had no witnesses, nor did Paul on the Road to Damascus. And Joseph must have read the Bible before he had one of his many “First Visions”. Could he have been influenced by Paul, who was the founder of Christianity?
I have since taken a course on comparative world religions and found that there are billions of people out there who have spiritual experiences with their god (s). And many of the Abrahamic religions, of which there are three, believe that the Holy Spirit has told them that they are correct in their belief. I even checked out a Qu’oran from our public library and found that Jesus was mentioned there more than anyone except Allah. We need to read and understand the feelings and understanding of all God’s children.
Even though I am no longer a believer in a deity, I can still see the need that people in all religions have for helping them to deal with their own immortality. The rituals that they use with exotic clothing (I even found a large religion that utilizes what Mormons use in temples.) The only complaint I have is when religions use their political influence in countries to try to force a change in belief and we have a lot of that in this country, though so far our Constitution is putting on the brakes.
Regarding John’s mention of Denver Snuffer, Two weeks ago I talked to a young man, very active LDS although a bit on the edge, who tried hard to convince me of the need to study Snuffer’s new Christian Reformation. He didn’t get anywhere, but from my reading of several of Denver’s books, I began my faith journey. Had I now continued, I would probably be a follower of that movement today. Had I still been a believer in the existence of Jesus and his divinity, I would have followed the admonition in his one book on how to converse with the Lord, because it did make sense.
Those two men seem to be very trusting in what they have been taught, but most Mormons are. I sure was and that trust has a lot to do with why most of this country’s ‘natural’ disease cures are made in Utah and why many believe Utah to be the scam capital of America.
Thanks, John, for all you do. After non-attending I used to go to many sites, but now I just go to one and it is by far the best one. I sure want to recommend to your guests that they go into the Mormon Stories archives and enjoy. And Thanks John, for having stories that have taken me out of the anger stage to greater acceptance of all religions and all peoples.
I do read, a lot. I’m not a theologian and Mormonism is one interest and priority among many. I have listened to much of Mormon Stories (and I donate)! I love John Dehlin’s work. I can’t speak to how accurate Given’s claims are. I just found them to resonate personally. To me that matters more than whether or not they are historically aligned to Christianity at its root.
And when I say they resonate, I don’t mean, necessarily, they have to be an accurate reflection of historical teaching or represent literal truth. The idea of love, healing, being self aware, continual growth. Those ideas ring true and resonate. That’s all.
Despite all the rage I’m just an other rat in a cage
( smashing pumpkins )
Todd
I couldn’t even understand what you were trying to say
Many words but not clear thoughts
Are you saying you support the apologist and that you don’t care about the history or origin of the church ?
If you do care about the history and origin of the church have you studied in-depth what Joseph Smith said and did?
If you have learned the many disturbing facts Does it disturb you or not ?
Even the agnostic Bart Ehrman would cringe at the thought that some agnostics/ atheists are still spewing out the nonsense that Jesus never existed. That was the latest fad in the 19th century. These days, it’s an embarrassing sign of one’s backwardness and naivete.
It is also the majority consensus of scholars who have done extensive research on the question of the Resurrection of Jesus that this event is a HISTORICAL FACT based on all available evidence. The problem is, many of their research are found in university libraries and other scholarly archives. They are never popularized for the masses unlike Ehrman’s books.
Many of the loudmouths who bear their silly and nauseating testimonies that Jesus never existed or that his resurrection never happened are those who have never ever evaluated the evidences.
The Givens promote a “God who heals” who they think is closer to the concept of the God whom the Eastern Orthodox churches worship than the God of the Calvinists and Puritans.
But is their version of God the same as the “evolving Gods” of Joseph Smith in his King Follett sermon or those who live in the other planets of his “Book of Abraham”?
Somebody should tell the Givens that the Eastern Orthodox have faithfully clung to the teachings on the nature of God by the Council of Nicea since 325 AD. That great council of Christian bishops condemned the heretic Arius who taught that “there was a time when the Son of God was not God.”
As a counter-balance to the Givens, may I suggest that ex-Mormons who have converted to Eastern Orthodoxy be given the chance to comment on the Givens’ claims? I’m not Eastern Orthodox myelf, but they have an active presence in reddit as “exmo_christianity.” I think they would be glad to shed more light on this controversial claim and the Eastern concepts of theosis and divinization.
Todd are you going to answe
Have you done in-depth research about what Joseph Smith said and did??
If so do you still feel that Joseph Smith did what God wanted him to do ????
I’ll answer.
Todd,
Ideas have consequences. And monstrous ideas have monstrous consequences. Mormon polygamy is a fine example of such monstrosity.
Todd Compton wrote “In Sacred Loneliness” to related the tragic lives of the women who married Joseph Smith. If men and women were created “to have joy” according to Mormon doctrine, then that joy was mostly absent for women in polygamy.
Those thoughts in our heads need to be scrutinized and criticized as far as possible before they become actions. Humans are capable of deliberation. That’s what makes us different from animals. Merely dismissing those ideas as nothing but monsters in your head is to grossly misunderstand their nature.
It might be true about ideas having consequences. I’ve had lots of ideas but nothing changed. Seems to me there might need to be just a little something more added to an idea before it has consequences. Just sayin…
The Compton quote: “that joy was mostly absent for women in polygamy”. mostly… what does he mean by “mostly”? Do I see subjective-ness sneaking through?
But absolutely some people were unhappy in polygamy. Some people are unhappy in monogamy. In that case, down with monogamy! For all intents and purposes there are polygamous relationships all around us. They just don’t have a government marriage certificate. Plus, the women unhappy in polygamy are the ones who, “evolutionary-ly” speaking, are the abnormal. Regardless, polygamy was then. What does that have to do with you now? Were you manipulated into polygamy?
I know, I know. I know what you’re saying. “How could Joseph Smith be a prophet if he said and did all those things?” How could he not be a prophet if he said and did all those things? Is there a list of qualifications and skills for prophet being passed around the Internet?
Why I used the word “monster”. From above:
“Listening to them makes it even harder to be motivated to go and search for the real facts and truth about the origin of our doctrine and Joseph Smith
“It’s like mommy at night pulling up the covers over you and telling you there’s no monsters—- but in this case there’s many monsters.”
If anyone here has the guts to see what you call a monster, there are places you can find them, places where they thrive. And they ain’t the deceased Joseph Smith, they ain’t livin in Salt Lake City, and they ain’t in your ward.
Hello Emma,
I’ve done in-depth research into what has been written regarding what Joseph Smith said and did. But let’s be honest, my comment of doing “in-depth research” doesn’t really mean anything and has zero bearing on anything here.
I’m not prepared to answer your questions regarding “facts” because I don’t know which ones you’re referring to. If I were to answer I must emphasize that I was not an eye-witness. And I must also strongly emphasize that I am not a victim of Joseph Smith. He has never laid a finger on me, never said anything to me. There is no justification for me to hold a grudge against him. I do not know what he really thought, how his mind worked. I do not know what meanings he placed on vocabulary words.
My guess is I’m not the person you’re going to want to hear from.
Todd,
Nothing may have changed much in your situation in spite of you having many ideas. Well, only you can probably explain why that is. But Smith’s case is pretty revealing. He married some 40 women for which he could not possibly have normal relationships. That is why it was tragic for the women who could have been married to someone else rather than being deceived into accepting a false marriage.
Smith’s monstrous ideas on polygamy turned out to have monstrous consequences not only for him and the women he married, but for the Mormon church as well. You don’t have to be victimized by him directly. You only have to be convinced that he is worth trusting, spend your life and resources promoting the idea that he can be trusted, and then find out he is not the real thing.
You can see how transparent his church is when it comes to discussing his polygamous activities. You can see how eager the highest leaders of his church to answer when people ask questions about it. And you can see now in-depth their knowledge is on the subject, they don’t even need Mormon apologists.
Right?
PS: There are many criteria for detecting false prophets in the Bible. This was long before there was any internet out there. But for those who have been fooled by Smith, and still trust him deeply, citing the Bible does not always convince them that they have been fooled.
PPS: Should monogamy be abolished because some marriages turned out to be tragic? Nope. But polygamy should be abolished because it is ADULTERY.
You’ll read what I write, make a lot of assumptions, put words in my mouth, and feel you’ve got it all right. I’ll read what you write, make a lot of assumptions, put words in your mouth, and feel I’ve go it all right. Eventually we read what we want to read, make a lot of assumptions, find validation, and continue to believe we have it all right.
My original post stands. All these monsters are in your head. All that is going on here in this venue is a form of mental illness. It leads to bad thinking and poor problem solving. It’s the same story on thousands of other websites like it on all sorts of subjects. It’s the same story in the media and social media, same story in politics. Humans did not evolve to find solutions to real-world issues in this forum. We can’t even hear the tone in voices, for crying out loud. We might find some satisfaction, but no solutions. And I’m not criticizing websites with data about the real world, like medicine, engineering, aviation, etc. For the one piece of satisfaction we might find, we are misled by ten others. This sudden emergence of communication, opinion sharing, information, social media isn’t solving any problems. Our brains cannot handle this environment in a healthy way. If it isn’t already, time will bear this out.
If a person has not been physically touched in any way they are not a victim unless they choose to be. We have volumes of laws backing this up. The only exception is a child or a person with a severe mental disorder. With the exception of physical contact, if you’re a victim of Joseph Smith, you are choosing to be. If you’re a victim of a leader of a church, you are choosing to be. If you are a victim of a god, you are choosing to be. Whatever it is you are worried about in polygamy and the modern church is a phantom. Something in your head. If the early women were manipulated into polygamy and felt it was wrong they have no one to blame but themselves. They allowed someone else “with authority” to tell them what to do. If you were a believer in a church that physically harmed you, take it to court. If you were not physically harmed you only have yourself to blame for continuing be a victim mentally and emotionally. I promise you, any clear-headed judge will back this up.
At the end of the day, none of this is going to help you. It’s all vanity. Have you noticed that nothing in the natural world is noticing all this commotion? Trees just sit there, birds just fly around, clouds float on by, cows just eat grass, flies still annoy. If you walk off a ledge you still fall, and all of nature will not even notice. That is reality and the only place to find real solutions. All this other stuff is a figment of your imaginations. This planet enables humans to be bad believers. Mormons in particular are bad believers. But ex-mormons are even worse nonbelievers. You’re still under the same umbrella. Just different sides of the same coin. Thinking the same way, talking the same way, bearing testimony the same way, just in the opposite direction. Nothing original. It is embarrassing and pathetic.
And for the life of me I don’t know why I posted in the first place. You are incapable of seeing any value in what I had to say. You are too deeply invested in the narrative that you and others are victims. This is a byproduct of the modern day, and it is a byproduct of your Mormon background. You have been trained to look to others to tell you what’s next. And that’s why you’re here. But if someone comes along and tells you something that doesn’t jive with the victim narrative you will outright reject it. What I had to say would have helped free you. But you don’t want that because then you’d be responsible.
Use more than once dictionary and look closely at the definition of adultery and polygamy. You’ll find that your declarative statement that polygamy is adultery might not actually be true. But the good thing is that I’m sure you’ll be able to find a dictionary that defines it as you would like. So your narrative is still intact, thank God.
This post, like my original, is to everyone who reads it.
Todd,
When discussing ideas with other people, I only stick to one principle: if a claim or assertion is made, then back it up with evidence.
You say that ideas are just “monsters in our head” but I say no, ideas have consequences. Bad ideas have bad consequences. You don’t agree? Well, then what is your evidence that ideas have no consequences? Your personal life? Your evidence is that nothing much happened to you even though you have full of ideas.
But I know nothing about you, so what is there for me to comment on? Nothing. Only you can explain why your life turned out that way. I can’t judge your evidence.
But with Joseph Smith’s teachings on polygamy, there is plenty of room to judge. Here we see actual monsters in action. The effects on the lives of the women he married attest to this.
But instead of grappling with the evidence of Mormon polygamy, you now argue that a person has to be directly victimized by Joseph Smith in order to a victim. Well, that’s one big assumption that I think is not self-evident. The lack of evidence does not oblige me to buy this.
I was once a Mormon missionary who had to explain why Mormons practiced polygamy. And the standard answer I gave was what was passed on to me by my missionary leaders: Mormon men married several women simultaneously because many of the women lost their husbands and sons during the persecutions. No one would take care of them and their children. As a 20-something young man, that sounded reasonable to me.
Years later, I discovered it was all a lie.
Not only that one about polygamy, but the First Vision, the Book of Mormon, Plan of Salvation, etc, etc. These were all demonstrable lies. By demonstrable, I mean evidence that cannot be refuted.
Now had I known from the start that these were all fraudulent claims, I would not have gone on a mission and wasted time and money there teaching false doctrines. And unwittingly help recruit useful idiots for the Mormon church.
I almost got killed in my mission. I’ve seen other missionaries who have been traumatized by it. Was all that suffering in the field worth the falsehoods of Mormonism? What do you think?
I don’t have to be a direct victim of Smith’s polygamous teachings, but I am a victim of his falsehoods. And so is every Mormon up to the General Authorities who seem to be all clueless of the many things being discussed in this forum.
Now to you, these are all nothing but meaningless talk, since according to your silly assumptions, nothing out there notices this. Not the birds, bees, cows, clouds, etc.
But if truth really means nothing to the cosmos around us according to you, then why do you even come here to unload your what you clearly believe to be true? Apparently, the truth means something to you.
So what you’re really saying about everything else out there not paying attention to the truth is really FALSE. Birds, bees, cows, and clouds may not bother with the truth, but it is obvious that you do.
Rico,
You’ve made some good points I need to take into consideration.