On the contrary. I am sincerely interested in finding out if the LDS Church wants people like me to remain in the church. Consequently, I want all of my/our cards to be on the table during this process, and I am hopeful that my stake president will be open, honest, and explicit about why he takes whatever action he takes against me (if action is to be taken). If the church is willing to accept me as I am, I will stay. If the church takes formal action to excommunicate me, I will leave. It’s that simple.